Post # 46
Yes, he does. I have a condition that makes it difficult to gain weight so I’m always letting him know when I gain/lose since it’s usually a direct correlation with my overall health.
I do not know his weight, but he is in the process of losing weight via exercise and diet changes.
Post # 47
Yes my Darling Husband knows my weight. I’ve recently lost weight so when I went onto the dr today & stood on the scale I snapped a pic & sent it to him. But…he also knew his much I weighed at my heaviest too
Post # 48
My FH and I actually have the same nutritionist and have gone to meetings together. I need to gain weight and he needs to lose so we are each other’s accountability partners and we celebrate whenever I gain or he loses.
Post # 49
I don’t hide it but I don’t tell him every day. We weigh ourselves on the same scale and it always shows the last number when you turn it back on. So I’m sure he sees my weight all the time. Once in a while I’ll tell him if I’m really excited about it.
hes probably the first person in my life who knows when I gain or lose, since he sees me naked all the time. If your SO sees you naked, they could probably guess your weight. Not telling them doesn’t change what the scale says, so why hide it?
Darling Husband does see the physical report I get from the doctor each year and I see his. I think being healthy is an important part of life. since poor health affects both spouses, we are very upfront and accountable to each other on any health issues.
Post # 50
I mean, he sees me naked, so at that point what difference does the number matter?
Post # 51
I mean honestly he probably has a better idea of what I look like naked than I do. But still sometimes I feel a little shy- totally irrational I know. We’ve been losing weight together lately and we send each other our weight graph results, so he definitely knows now.
Post # 52
My weight isn’t something we talk about, but if he asked, I’d tell him. Plus, he could easily look at the weight listed on my driver’s license if he wanted.
Post # 53
He knows, only because I was weighing myself and he looked. I’m okay with him looking, as long as he is still heavier than me
Post # 54
Yep! We are currently doing the same fitness program and are tracking results on a chart.
Post # 55
Yes he does, I weigh 200lbs now you know too 😝
Post # 56
nope, he does not. He’s skinny, and I am fat. I hate the number on the scale; he says he does not care but I DO!
Post # 57
MrsWolfaith : We both share our weights with each other on a regular basis, as well as our latest fitness goals we’ve reached (how far we’ve walked, how much we’ve worked out/lifted, etc.) and how we feel we’ve done with eating/consuming (alcohol). However, niether of us is plus sized or larger sized (whichever is the correct terminology, no offence intedend). I don’t think it’s a mandatory thing to share your weight at all, whatever works best for you is good. For us sharing this stuff is motivating, if it’s not, skip it.
Post # 58
MrsWolfaith : my Darling Husband knows cos we use a fertility app to keep track of when my period is so he gets the “heads up” re my pms and he accidentally saw it while I was logging… but he pretends he doesnt know and doesnt say anything about it because he knows how anxious I am about my weight. I find that so sweet and caring. I actually put on about 30 pounds since I met him and he says “i cant tell you are still very hot and beautiful to me”. But he gently encourages me to exercise because he knows how it hurts my confidence and also for my health.
Post # 59
Thank you for all the info Bees!😊
I actually went ahead and with tears in my eyes told Darling Husband. He looked at me and said “okay…so?” 😂 I told him I just didn’t want to have to worry about him seeing the scale at the Dr.’s office, since we had a fertility appointment today. He was so comforting and told me there’s nothing I could tell him that would make him love me any less, or find me less attractive. (Cue more crying)
For those who asked “why would it matter?”: It just matters. I think if you struggle with insecurity about your weight it’s hard to talk about. Plus Darling Husband is HOTTT😍, he’s always been very fit without putting forth a lot of effort.lol I also weighed a lot less when we first Met. Thankfully, he has been with me through the diagnosis of PCOS, arthritis, etc, and knows how hard I work just to maintain. Yes, Darling Husband sees me naked, but at the same time I have put on about 30 pounds JUST in the last 4 months since my sister died and they upped all my fertility medicine, so it’s just something that I was embarrassed of and I think we always want our husbands to see us in the most attractive light as possible.
To the those who are wondering: I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Today I walked into that room and stood on that scale not worrying about a thing.lol It was just nice knowing that my husband knows exactly what my biggest insecurity is and if anything he has been even sweeter because he knows what a big deal it was for me.
Post # 60
MrsWolfaith : he didn’t for years but we joined a gym together so he found out my weight at he same as I found out his.
I put on loads of weight in the beginning of our relationship I realised I had to do something when I realised I was avoiding looking at myself in front of a mirror from the neck down. I’ve lost a significant amount of weight so I’m now slightly plus size but comfortable in my skin. I am now also OK with people knowing my weight. My husband has only ever been supportive and accepted my size at any weight.
I’m sure your hubby is the same as mine and won’t really care what the numbers on the scale read. Just tell him.