Does DH/SO know your weight?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 91
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Bumble bee

He knows my weight. I make sure he knows it for medical reasons. Just like I make sure he knows that I’m allergic to penicillin.

Post # 92
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

Yes, he does. But weight/body image hasn’t really been a wounding area for me so it’s not like I’m revealing a personal vulnerability or tender spot like for some people who have commented. My SO actually really likes women who are naturally more curvy that I tend to be so he likes when my numbers are on the higher (for me) side.

Also- as a PP said- he’s seen a baby come out of me so I’m not so concerned with hiding things anymore!

Post # 93
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Even I don’t know my weight!

Post # 94
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2019

No… not the exact number. He knows within 5 lbs. the ones I keep losing and gaining lol. He would never ask unless he needed the info for medical reasons. 🙂 

Post # 95
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think I’ve told Darling Husband before, and I complain when I put on any weight but I don’t think he really cares. We don’t have a scale, haha. 

Post # 96
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Busy bee

Well, no, but only because I don’t know my weight.

I told him when we first started dating because we were doing some kind of activity that required it (white water rafting?) and I was filling out a form. Now I complain like, “I think I’ve gained some weight”, so he knows it’s….more than that? We talk about eating healthier, how we feel energy wise, how we feel in our various workouts, but we do not typically talk about weight. Focusing on weight is not a good rabbit hole for me to fall into.

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