(Closed) Does He give you MONEY $$ ? DO you ask ?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Does He give you MONEY $$ ? DO you ask ?
    NO, no : (163 votes)
    37 %
    Yes, yes : (107 votes)
    25 %
    NO, yes : (4 votes)
    1 %
    Yes, no : (119 votes)
    27 %
    other explain below : (43 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    we always give each other money – whether its $5 for swimming entry or a few thousand, we have money going back and forth depending on whats needed or happening or the last time one of us went to the ATM. i have money squirrelled away all over the place so its easier for him to ask me than go to an atm

     

    Post # 4
    Member
    5921 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    No, if I need something, I buy it.  If it is a big purchase, I will consult with him about it, and vice versa.

    Occasionally I will ask if he has any cash so I don’t have to go to the ATM, but other than that, never.

    Post # 5
    Member
    2767 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    we share accounts so it’s not really an issue.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1253 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I’m a stay at home mom, so his income is our income. I guess that wouldn’t be asking for money, since its my money too. But I hate hate hate hate asking for money still, unless its for groceries or gas or diapers. But my Fiance is pretty good at keeping my account topped up lol. Or he’ll say hey, why don’t you go to the mall I put $ in your account, that way I don’t feel guilty for asking.

    Post # 7
    Member
    569 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    No, but he’s offered before. At this point it doesn’t matter much, since we’ll be merging finances soon.

    Post # 8
    Member
    46452 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We are both working professionals well able to afford what we want, so no need.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1253 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @chesseplease: I’m glad he can see how much is in my account when he signs into his online banking because I feel like I’m 15 again asking my dad to drive me to the mall when I want to do something and don’t have any cash!

    Post # 11
    Member
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Fiance and I both have pretty crap jobs at the moment, so we lend where needed. I’m looking for a new job, and he’s going back to school, so things should be looking up, though!

    Post # 12
    Member
    870 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    He is currently unemployed and a stay-at-home-dad so he can’t give me money but even if he could I wouldn’t ask and he never gave me any before. I always had a job and made my own money. He sometimes asks me for money though. lol

    Post # 13
    Member
    2295 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    we share everything- money is very fluid with us, so really its pretty equal

    Post # 14
    Member
    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    Well now we share accounts so there is no his or mine… although i guess sometimes if one or the other of us has cash and the other one needs it we hand it over? Before that we made pretty much the same amount so there was really never any need.

    Post # 15
    Member
    3709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Not really. He’ll usually buy me something if he sees something I think I will like and vice versa. Although we are merging finances after marriage, I still have a “thing” about asking for/borrowing money. 

    Post # 16
    Member
    505 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    Right now I have to ask him & he has to give it to me bc I am not working and have no income coming in.  But when I was working I was free to spend my money how I wanted without asking him.  Even for big purchases I would tell him what I was looking for and make him research for me. He’s a big tech freak.  And I would just book vacations and tell him when to take time off from work and vise versa with me.

    jeez..i really miss not having a job so I can spend money…momma needs shoes and bags and cloths and new sheets and new towels.  

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