(Closed) Does He give you MONEY $$ ? DO you ask ?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Does He give you MONEY $$ ? DO you ask ?
    NO, no : (163 votes)
    37 %
    Yes, yes : (107 votes)
    25 %
    NO, yes : (4 votes)
    1 %
    Yes, no : (119 votes)
    27 %
    other explain below : (43 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 122
    Member
    1067 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    My Fiance supports me right now while I’m in grad school. He currently pays for everything. Though, we are living in a co-op that I own, so he’s only paying the matienance fee which is damn cheap for New York.

    Post # 123
    Member
    870 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Sometimes I pay, sometimes he pays.  We pool our income for pretty much everything.

    Post # 124
    Member
    1212 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    We both have our own money/own jobs and we make nearly the same amount, so there’s no need to give one another money. Although if one of us knows the other is running low that week, we would def. give one another money to help out. It usually evens out. 

    Post # 125
    Member
    908 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I handle all our money, but he asks for money sometimes for things. 🙂

    Post # 126
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    3647 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2000

    Sure, we have completely intermindgled finances and he’s the bank man. I never have to go to the bank to get cash, I just ask him, my banker, for it.Men always seem to have a lot of cash on them.

    Understand that for the big stuff I’ve got my own credit card and use that. He pays the bills with joint funds.

    Post # 127
    Member
    1290 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    Yep. I ask for money and he gives it to me. He supports me financially and takes care of all bills sooo usually I don’t ask but if I want something big I will ask him.  He buys it or gives me cash so I can buy it on my CC and get the points.

    Post # 128
    Member
    561 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    My partner and I share finances which I am fine with.  If I want something I just ask her and se says if we can afford it or not.  If we can’t, no biggie. 

    Post # 129
    Member
    472 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    We have separate accounts and I take care of all the bill paying, so yeah, he gives me money.

    Post # 130
    Member
    899 posts
    Busy bee

    I’m a little shocked by the poll results! Money goes back and forth between us. If I need money, I have no problem asking him. He gives me money unasked, too. I give him money, too, no big deal. He makes a lot more money right now, so he gives me more than I give him, but that’s just how it is right now.

    Post # 131
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    157 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Perfect example: I normally babysit- but the kids I have watched are too old for a sitter now so recently I told my Fiance I was planning on getting a part time job so I have money for Christmas presents this year he emails me back (he currently deployed in Afghan) and goes I’m going to send you $xxx amount tomorrow via western union don’t you worry about it – I protested but he is persistent he doesn’t want me to feel like I have to work and knows I love love love giving gifts at Christmas :)<3 so sweet

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