- 8 years ago
Hello beautiful bees,
For those of you who have been following my online dating journey I have an update and would love any more advice/opinions on my situation! Please bear with me.. I’m giving every single detail so I can get some very detailed advice!
I had been on a few dates with men who I had met online however nothing really eventuated (lots of mixed messages, games, headaches and heartache). I had all about given up when I was emailed by a guy who sounded very sweet, articulate and was cute. He lived near me and after a few short exchanges he asked me out to my favourite sushi place. That was about a month ago.
We had a very nice date and afterwards he asked when he could see me again. We made a date for a few days later and I had such a good time, and really felt the chemistry and I ended up sleeping with him (very early on for me). I was going away for two weeks the following week so we arranged to get together the night before I went away.
He emailed twice while I was away. When I got back we went back out to dinner, and have been out twice since then. Each time we go out on a date, and usually back to his place.
He is 23, I am 21. He is a pilot, has his own place and has worked very hard to get where he is. He is a little geeky (in his words) and is a real sweetheart. He has started opening up to me about previous relationships (his longest is 7 weeks, mine was 7 years and we were married) his family, his friends and his views on things.
Since we met he has not contacted me everyday.. only every 3-5 days. Every other guy i’ve dated I hear from daily.. this really throws me! If he liked me, wouldnt he be wanting to hear from me? He has not said that he has feelings for me, he hasn’t asked how I feel about him and we haven’t talked about ‘where this is going’. He also hasnt asked me to hang out with his friends (although I get the impression he doesnt hang out with them often with work)
I had been with my ex since I was 14.. so when we got together we were texting constantly and said I love you really quickly. He hasnt really had a serious relationship. I don’t know if we are moving in that direction or if I am just a hook up?
I know he isn’t seeing anyone else, and he took down his online dating profile but I’m not sure? Also when we first started corresponding I said I wasnt looking for anything too serious as I am newly single but I am really starting to develop feelings for him.
What does it sound like this is? How to I proceed from here? Help??