(Closed) Does he really mean it when he says he’s fine with me gaining a little weight?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper

I think he’s being honest with you.  Believe him!

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

He really means it.

It’s hard because the “ideal” look that magazines show us is sooo thin. I constantly wish I were thinner. But most men like a little meat to snuggle up to, grab and touch. And love helps! My Fiance has a bit of a belly – more so than when I first met him. But I still think he’s super sexy!!

Post # 3
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7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I think he’s being honest with you.  Believe him!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

He’s telling the truth! And at 140 and 6′, you are a rail! You could easily gain 20 lbs and still look good. 🙂

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Pure honesty! and I really doubt you will gain any “real” weight or fat with the pills!  5 pound water weight is nothing for pms and goes away quick!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

He means it, I think. Look, I’m 145 and 5’10”– and my older sister is 6’1″ and has gone anywhere from 134 to 165 (and still looked great, I’ll add), so I’m very familiar with that whole range of size. For one, when us tall gals gain 5 lbs, it is very hard to tell. And as for perfection, well. I have no doubt that he loves your body just the way it is, but a lot of guys do legitimately enjoy it when we get a little more “meat on our bones”. (Remember, sometimes that translates to curves!) I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you.

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