- 10 years ago
My Boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years and have agreed that we want to get married. We have felt this way for a long time and have been going ring shoping for what seems like ever but he still wont propose. over a year ago he told his friends that he was ring shopping but we still have nothing to show for it? this is just really embarseing for me! now he wont ever talk about wedding stuff because he knows i will get upset with him not showing any positive feelings about us getting married. Im so afraid that im just wasteing my time with him! i mean he wont talk about our future at all, anything that is based in the future is just centered around him. he tells me hes thought about ways to propose, but why hasnt he yet?? is there something wrong with me? i have tried to be perfect for him, makeing his dinner, getting his lunch ready for work, cleaning doing his laundry….like everything he wants me to do or expects me to do…im soo sick of having his family and friends and my family and friends ask us when were getting married!!! i told him like 8 months ago that if it doesnt happen soon then i doubt it is going to happen at all? and im really close to just leaving him because im sick of wasteing my time with a dead beat who only seems to care about him self….i know that sounds horrible and you probably think we shouldnt even get married, but i do love him very very much and i know hes the one, but if its not going to happen its best that we just end it right? i mean i am really humilliated by all of this!!
(sorry for my bad spelling)