Does he sound interested or just passing time?

posted 7 months ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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10046 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

Girl, he is just not that into you. Sorry Boo. 

It sucks. Don’t waste your time on such a jerk. A much better guy is out there for you. You deserve much better

Post # 3
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1173 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Move on!!

Post # 4
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371 posts
Helper bee

Yeah, move on to someone better. From what you describe, he’s not worth your time!

Post # 5
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6427 posts
Bee Keeper

Yeah don’t bother. 

When online dating in the early stages I find it better to interact with several guys so you dont get too hung up on one. It’s definitely a numbers game! If it’s clear after a few messages back and fore then talk on the phone and get a date. There’s no need for all the texting/snap chatting etc etc. 

You weed out the time wasters much quicker that way. 

Post # 6
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996 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I’d move on, this isn’t going to happen. 

Post # 7
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328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Wait until you feel that feeling again. Those games are no fun!

Post # 8
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1709 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

Move on. You haven’t even met him yet so moving on should be easy peasy. 

Post # 9
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4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Move on. 

Post # 10
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5796 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Next.

I don’t get the way online dating is being done these days.  It seems like people talk for *weeks* before they finally agree to meet.  That strikes me as a time waster.  

When I was online dating, we’d chat a few times, maybe a phone call and if he sounded halfway decent, an agreement to meet for lunch or coffee or something.  The whole thing wouldn’t take more than a couple of days at most.

I can’t imagine wasting weeks talking to someone without meeting them in person.

Post # 11
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781 posts
Busy bee

I think stop responding, and also don’t get deeply flirtatious before you meet in person and see if something is there. I am wary of extended communication before you even meet.

Post # 12
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3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Move on. 

And in the future, I’d assume that if you move the conversation to snapchat, of all places, it’s not going anywhere serious. 

Post # 13
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86 posts
Worker bee

He’s just not that into you

Post # 14
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716 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

There’s not one thing that makes me think he’s interested. Your conversation is happening over snap chat, for starters. Sporadic and not responding. This should be very obvious. 

Post # 15
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3460 posts
Sugar bee

Move on. 

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