- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2016
Is your Fiance unemployed or are you working a higher paying job? If so, I can understand why he hasn’t been able to contribute. Since none of us know your situation, it’s difficult to judge whether or not he’s being cheap or he simply isn’t able to help pay for the wedding. My Fiance is a civil engineer and I’m a writer; from the beginning, he said he would pay for the majority of the wedding because obviously I can’t afford to pay as much. That being said, I have helped as much as I can, and still set aside money every paycheck for our wedding.
I think you need to talk to your Fiance about what you’re feeling- it is not healthy or normal to threaten to not marry someone, no matter how angry you are. That’s no excuse for emotionally abusing your SO. My Fiance always tell me the exact opposite: he is so excited and happy to marry me and I feel the same way. That’s the way it should be. If you two are already having such heated arguments before getting married, then imagine how much worse things will be AFTER you’re married. I know you’ve spent a lot of money on this already, but some vendors may give you at least a portion of your money back if you contact them in time. Try to stay strong and remember that there are other much kinder, sweeter men out there!