Does his opinion really matter? Why?posted 2 years ago in Rings
- 2 years ago
- Wedding: April 2018
tammietunes : my Fiance saw my ering as a reflection of him and our relationship. He was much more serious about the ring than I was. I had my heart set on a sapphire, but he refused anything but a clear stone since he wanted it to look traditional and didn’t want people to think he couldn’t take care of me. I thought his reasoning was completely ridiculous (clearly he didn’t look into the price of a nice sapphire!) And I ended up with a cheap moissy haha but this was really important to him so in the end I deferred. It was really weird because for almost anything else he is happy for me to take the lead. Our last two rented homes I leased without him even seeing them haha.