(Closed) Does is bother you that so many other women have the same dress as you?

posted 8 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
6351 posts
Bee Keeper

It’d only bother me if they were wearing it to my wedding πŸ™‚

Post # 4
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I have only seen one bee that will be wearing the same gown as me, but if there were more, I would probably feel both flattered that I have good taste and also sad because I like to be more unique than others.

Post # 5
468 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’ve never seen anyone else in my dress (except for the ads) and I loooove that!

Post # 7
3295 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

ive never seen my dress on another person…. but if i did… i still think it looks bangin on me so i wouldnt be sad! πŸ™‚

Post # 8
227 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I love your response SoontobeMrsA! So true!!  =D

I haven’t found anyone else with my dress yet either (and I’ve been trying), but I don’t think I’d let it bother me if there were others.  They always look so different depending on who’s wearing them, you know?

Post # 9
391 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I had thought of that and it was a reason that I was a little hestitant about trying on the dress that became mine, because it is popular. However I did really love it and once I saw it in person loved it even more. Then my awesome bridal attendant made a good point. I will be the only bride at my wedding and the only one wearing that dress. Very true. And like noritake22 said…just means we all have good taste then, lol

Post # 10
1335 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

My dress just came out this season and I’ve already found a few other bees who have it. And who knows how many other people in general could as well! I was surprised because when I first got my dress, I had no idea it would be that popular. But I love it and love it on me, so how can I feel bad that other people might feel the same way? πŸ™‚

@SoontobeMrsA: Love your comment!

Post # 11
3364 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I have only seen one person with my dress on, and that was Say Yes to the Dress, and just a “snippet”. I am kind of glad though. I think I would feel too “trendy” if I had the same dress as a lot of ladies, but then again I am not very “fashion forward” either! 


Post # 12
1559 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I really don’t care about seeing other bees in my dress- I actually think it’s kind of nice to find dress twins b/c I can get an idea of how they accessorized it, etc. 

I really think it would only bother me if someone I knew picked the same dress, and then got married before me… but that isn’t happening, and I doubt it happens to very many people. 

Post # 13
3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I have yet to find someone with my same dress and honestly I wish I could find at least one other person with it. Not sure why.

Post # 14
3316 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

The only person I’ve seen with my dress posted an ad trying to sell it–and used pictures of me in her ad.  Ok, that was a bit creepy, but she did take the ad down immediately after I asked her to.

But honestly, there aren’t that many weddings in my circle, since I am older.  So even if my dress had been a really popular one, I doubt my guests would have seen it on anyone else.

Post # 15
23597 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I go through waves with my thoughts but ultimately, I am the kind of girl that likes to be “different” than others.  The first dress I tried on was Adorae, and I certainly loved it.  And of course, we’ve seen 5-6 dozen Adorae women pass through wedding bee!  It is a beautiful dress and what has been proven is that Adorae is beautiful on all different shapes and sizes!  In the end, I chose an Anjolique gown from a few years back and am enjoying the idea that no other girls are wearing my dress.  So to answer the question, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it, but I love my dress! πŸ™‚

Post # 16
3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I have not seen one person or post anywhere about my wedding dress! And it makes me so happy πŸ™‚ Sometimes I get sad because I’m like… hello this dress is amazing. But oh well! It’s really cool to see other girls wearing the dresses I tried on though. I’m always like, yea girl, I tried that, go rock it! πŸ™‚

On the other hand, maybe someone out there is like me… and refuses to share a picture/name of my dress until I actually wear it. I’m just so scared that my fiance is going to find it randomly.

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