(Closed) Does it gross you out?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Nah. We’re all adults. I have my past too. We are open about our history and are comfortable even when story telling. It’s not realistic to try edit, when we both know we’ve been in other relationships.

Post # 6
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3142 posts
Sugar bee

I watched a sex tape of my Fiance with his ex.

he also has told me tons of sexual stuff they have done together.

Needless to say, it is very destructive and if he had to do it over again, he never would have told me that shit, nor missed out on destoying that tape with the rest of them.

She is just digusting though and can’t give a bj to save her life so it actually kind of made me feel better in the end. He has def traded up.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Zama Beach Club, Isla Mujeres, Mexico

@Oneeleven: Oh my gosh! I wouldn’t be able to handle that.

I honestly dont even think about it. We talked about that kind of stuff at the beginning of our relationship and we haven’t looked back 🙂

Post # 8
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2701 posts
Sugar bee

No, it doesn’t bother me. His ex bothers me just because she is…. different looking (that is saying it nicely)… but not the fact that he has had intimate relationships with other people. We all have done things we’re not proud of. There’s a reason my wedding dress isn’t white- jk 😉

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Oneeleven: Oh no! Ya I couldnt handle watching it that’s for sure

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

He didn’t really have a serious gf before me. I don’t mind being the first, I don’t like hearing about that stuff either.

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@petitfour: Oh man, how did you handle watching it? Did you just find it & figure out it was him after a minute? 

:/ 

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

& To the OP’s question–I have never seen anything my husbands Ex wore. (He only had one sexual partner before me.) & My husband was 17 when him & I first got together. So I assume since they was both teen’s she didn’t wear anything. 

But no it doesn’t bother me to know about her. 

 

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Everyone has a past, my husband and I don’t talk about it much so I don’t have the opportunity to get grossed out. What you don’t know can’t hurt you in some cases, and I don’t go seeking out things I’m not going to appreciate knowing.

 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I don’t usually care about ex’s or pics w/ ex’s and what not…but man my FI’s ex is a freakin’ trip and a half.  She like used to make fake FB profiles to message me hate mail like ‘ur bf is still in love iwth his ex, i just wanted to let u know cuz im his friend from high school and im worried about him cheating on u’ im like uhhh… ‘well thanks but everyone including her own family hates her becaues shes a fat ugly cheating b****, also she has like 16 foreheads, it’s so weird! but thanks for the tip! I trust him’    needless to say she stopped =O

 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

@KatyElle: agreed. I am DH’s first “girlfriend” but I know he has done things with other chicks in the past. I don’t know what and I don’t want to know! I have burned waaaay too many times by exboyfriend’s oversharing (boys are stupid!). I like being ignorant in this situation!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Three years into our relationship and I’m STILL finding old cards and love letters mixed up in all his stuff. I know he’s a guy and he’s unorganised…but I wish all his past was put away in a box so I didn’t have to keep finding it…

It doesn’t bother me that he keeps it…I just don’t want to keep finding little things from other women if I don’t have to.

 

I don’t have access to his email or FB…so I’m grateful for that because he can keep his old pics and emails to himself!

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