(Closed) does minister get one?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: does minister get a std?
    no : (2 votes)
    15 %
    std and invitation : (3 votes)
    23 %
    only invitation - he should know to hold the date since he's officiating : (8 votes)
    62 %
  • Post # 3
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    2891 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    You are not required to but you can if you want to. Just keep in contact with him and you should stay on his radar. It doesn’t sound like he would forget you.

    Post # 4
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    350 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I sent a save the date only because the officiant’s deposit was due at the same exact time we were mailing them out and we had some extras.  So I handwrote a note on the back and included the check in the envelope.  I wasn’t going to send an invitation (it honestly would have never occurred to me), but our venue coordinator said it’s REALLY poor etiquette not to!  I didn’t send one to any other vendors, though; they’ll all be working during the reception.

    Post # 5
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    5110 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I dont think it is needed. He should know the date that he is officiating an event.

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