(Closed) Does my fiance think money grows on trees?

posted 5 years ago in Money
Post # 3
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3063 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Did he even discuss this with you before he did it? I would be absolutely livid if my husband did something like that when we had other things that needed to be taken care of first. Regardless of how fun it is, baseball really shouldn’t be a priority when you have bills and taxes to pay.

Well… what’s done is done and I hope things work out all right with your bills! 🙂

 

Post # 4
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2253 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@6598731ssfse3:  +1.

OP, you need to sit him down and make him aware of the consequences that can/are occurring bc of his actions.

Post # 5
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7211 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

Not. Cool.

He should have discussed this with you (so you could tell him NO) beforehand. Is there a way for him to back out at this point? You so don’t need this extra stress!

Post # 7
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1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Wow, he would be feeling my wrath. You guys should have a serious talk about finances.

Post # 11
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12247 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

That is NOT okay! I hope you have another conversation with him, where he actually LISTENS to you!

Post # 12
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1239 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@allisonh:  that sux, he does not understand the seriousness of this & he needs to or it could get worse.  It sounds as thoguh he isnt reliable enough to be able to have control over the finances.  You need to sit down with him again and talk it over.  Are there things you can cancel to get more money, ie tell him you have to cancel the sky subscriptions or going out etc to show him that the money isnt there.  Tell him if he doesnt get that money back you want to contact the teammates to ask for the money yourself (that should hurry him up to tell them himself).  Is there some way of you taking total control over the money until he learns how to manage it better? 

 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@allisonh:  thats great to hear 🙂

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