(Closed) Does she expect me to invite her kid?

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Do you think she expects her kid to be invited?

    Yes

    No

    I don't know, but you're putting too much thought into this

  • Post # 17
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    4502 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    @JennyW1, exactly what I was just going to say! The friend could just be the type to provide as much information as possible.

    Either way, I wouldn’t worry about it–it’s completely fine to just invite the parents. 

    Post # 18
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    14 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    She thinks her kids being invited. You should let her know or remind her that children are not invited. 

    Post # 19
    Member
    13562 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    She may not realize no kids are invited. Just be clear on the invites!

    Post # 20
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    2186 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    shes probably assuming/expecting it but doesnt mean you have to!!! 🙂

    Post # 21
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    1129 posts
    Bumble bee

    I know a lot of parents who write their addresses that way – hell, I even have a couple who leave their non-phone age children’s names on the answering machine message. I don’t think you can guess whether or not she assumes anything.  Just respond politely and stick to your guns.

    Post # 22
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    10363 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    If you haven’t sent invites out yet, she doesn’t know that you’re not having kids. She probably just included the daughter’s name in case you wanted to invite her.

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