(Closed) Does she get another chance?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Honestly if it gets too it, I would say “It’s our wedding so back off! And if you don’t like it, don’t bother comming!” …. I know that sounds harsh but seriously, look at all the BS she put you two through, to the point of your hubby crying! I think it would awesome if she could be there for his sake but make sure she knows whos boss here and that “your say, you way”. I’m sure she’ll still come (after all if she didn’t that would prove how horrible she is) and hopefully she’ll use that as an eye opener. FI’s mom is just like that so I’m expecting the same issues.

Post # 4
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646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Can you have someone run interference? I know its a really small group, but maybe you could have her invite a guest (her husband? a sister?) that could keep her in check and remind her why she’s there.

Post # 5
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9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

“DH said that it’s very important for him that she attend because this Catholic ceremony is difficult for him emotionally”

Wait, I’m not understanding this. Why are both faiths not being represented here? Is she emotional because having a non Jewish service has been hard on her son?

Just want to make sure I’m getting this.

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