(Closed) Does SO know your a WaitingBee, Literally?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Does Your SO know that your literally a WaitingBee?
    He knows all about my Wedding Porn addiction & thinks I'm Crazy : (23 votes)
    19 %
    He knows about my addiction & thinks its adorable ;) : (44 votes)
    37 %
    I actively hide my Wedding porn addiction from my SO : (40 votes)
    34 %
    Being a WaitingBee is my only Wedding porn & I also think your crazy : (12 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I’m not a waiting Bee any more, but when I was (even though I wasn’t on Weddingbee, I was very active on other sites) he was well aware of it. He didn’t really mind, even if he found it a little scary.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1417 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @brideoffrankenstein:  My SO knows I’m a waiting bee. He doesn’t mind he says “that’s your thing, and if you love being on it then I’m happy that you are” He knows I have a crazy pinterest page filled with wedding stuff and doesn’t mind that either. What he DOESN’T know is that I have a folder on my computer of actual dress I want to try on, venues I want to look at and stuff like that. I mean I’m sure he will be fine with it ( He’s been dating me long enough to already know I’m crazy LOL) and he also has picked out what limos/cars everyone in our wedding party will be in LOL.

    Post # 5
    Member
    121 posts
    Blushing bee

    I really only frequent WeddingBee. But it’s kind of an addiction. Although I don’t post with too much regularity, I’m always reading the boards.

    As for SO… I TRY to hide it. But we are often on our laptops  in bed and we’ll randomly ask, “whatcha looking at?” I’ve caught him looking at rings (lol) and he’s caught me on weddingbee. He didn’t seem to mind. I’ve told him about the waiting forum and he thought it was cute. He’s between two ring settings (allegedly) and I saw him googling one night and he stumbled on a weddingbee post comparing the two. I’ve seen him on weddingbee a few times (through google, I don’t think he has an account). Just funny to think about, haha.

     

    Post # 7
    Member
    1737 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I’m not waiting anymore, but when I was, he knew. He was actually happy about it, because he felt the Bee gave me an outlet for my frustration, which translated into less stress on him. I was not a very patient WaitingBee! So he liked that I had a whole forum of ladies to bother instead of him ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 8
    Member
    121 posts
    Blushing bee

    @brideoffrankenstein:  I know! I don’t think he put it together that it’s the site I frequent, too. So oblivious, that one lol ๐Ÿ™‚

    By The Way, I lol’d at your car glove story. I’d be so embarressed! I have no problem mentioning our upcoming proposal/wedding (really, no shame there) but I wouldn’t want him to see any PHYSICAL evidence… like my super secret wedding pintrest board(s), for instance, haha.

    Post # 9
    Member
    23 posts
    Newbee

    Yes he knows ๐Ÿ™‚ Well he knows I’m on “wedding boards” he doesn’t specifically know the websites I don’t think. I get on theknot.com, mostly for their vegas board and also get on tons of ring websites, look at wedding stuff on etsy, pinterest, ect. He knows I’m obsessed and thinks I’m crazy but laughs it off. Occasionally, very occasionally I can get him to look at stuff on pinterest or etsy..IF I’m lucky lol

    Post # 10
    Member
    65 posts
    Worker bee

    SO used my phone while I was driving last week and had to use the “search” function. Of course my 10 previous searches all had to do with dresses. He gave me a bit of a crazy look and laughed. So,yes, he knows.

    Knew I should have deleted my history that day! :p

    Post # 11
    Member
    62 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    He totally knows. He thinks it just shows how excited I am about this next part of our life. And, I have a tendency to be a huge planner so I don’t think he’s very surprised. He’d probably be more concerned if I wasn’t thinking about it already! 

    Post # 12
    Member
    1475 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    He knows all about the bee and that I’m on here a few times a week, but NOT that I’m a waiting bee!!! He has no idea a waiting list exists and that I’m on it.  But he knows pretty much everything else there is to know about The Bee.

    Post # 13
    Member
    1202 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    He knows. I’ll show him all my plans, pics, info and then he’ll tell me, “Relax!” “Calm down, crazy.” lol. But then other days he’ll start telling me his plans and showing me pics of what wedding bands and songs he wants. haha. So when I think to myself, maybe I’m thinking way too much already, he gets me started with his ideas. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    1202 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @thisbeelikesbaseball:  Lol!… That’s how my Boyfriend or Best Friend found out about weddingbee. He used my phone to use the internet and guess what last site I was on and forgot to close it? haha. He started laughing and went on using the internet. 

    Post # 15
    Member
    524 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Back when I was a Waiting Bee my now-fiance knew about my wedding addiction stuff (though not specifically my membership to Weddingbee since I joined only a few months before he proposed) and I was really nervous about my “dirty little secret” at first but he found out and didn’t mind at all, haha. It didn’t freak him out because he knew we were going to get married soon, and I told him it was just my guilty pleasure like videogames is his. ๐Ÿ˜‰ That seemed to work!

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