(Closed) Does the RSVP deadline have to be exactly 1 month before your wedding date?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

No it wouldn’t. And typically the same rules don’t apply when having a Destination Wedding as having a hometown wedding. I just sent out my invitations last tues and the RSVP date is Mar 2nd (I should have made mine a month before!!!), leaving them literally a week to respond!!! I was expecting late RSVPs anyway with my guests. But I would hurry and get on it!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

What about April 27th?

Gives people 1 month to respond and you 6 weeks to finish organizing.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Mine was 2 months before! only a handful of people had to be called 🙂

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Mine is in my town and the RSVP deadline is one month and five days before the date. A friend having his wedding the day after mine, also in town, had his RSVP deadline almost two months ahead of the date. In both cases there were just 3 weeks between receipt of the invitation and the deadline. I think that’s totally fine… I know when I get wedding invitations, if I don’t RSVP within a week of getting it I totally forget, lol. It’s not like it ACTUALLY takes a long time to figure out if you can go or not. You look at your calendar, request time off if needed, and check yes or no depending on the answer. I don’t know why it would take anyone more than three weeks to figure that shit out.

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