(Closed) Does this band work with my ring?

posted 9 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Does this work?
    No, start saving for something less plain : (15 votes)
    44 %
    yes, it works : (16 votes)
    47 %
    Other- please suggest below : (3 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Maybe if you posted some pics of the rings your talking about we could better help 😀

    Post # 4
    4304 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    You should put a poll up.  I agree it’s a little too plain for your nice ring.  But I do love the symbolism of a plain band!

    Post # 5
    426 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Could you stack an eternity band or a diamond band on the other side of the engagement ring and wear all three? The band is a little plain, but with a third band it may be okay.


    Post # 7
    1850 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    To be completely honest, I don’t think it looks bad, but I don’t love it. Typically I don’t mind the gap, but the gap between your rings is a little more pronounced than most. I do love the idea of having something that belonged to both grandmothers though, and the symbolism of the plain band is really nice too. So I guess my opinion probably isn’t very helpful as there are things I like and don’t like about it haha

    Post # 8
    163 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I do think they look ok together and I think the symbolism is lovely, but I would be worried about the different metals not wearing evenly. It wouldn’t make much difference at first but over a lifetime the platinum could wear away at the gold band as it is a harder metal. Have you thought about palladium for your wedding band? It is as hard as platinum and from the same group of metals, but it is nowhere near as expensive. I hope that helps.

    Post # 9
    1726 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I LOVE gaps (most of the time) and I LOVE a plain WB with a blingy ring. I think it looks truly classy and lovely. And I’m verrry picky about jewelry.

    But you are right about being concerned with mixing metals. Which is which? If the band is plat and the e-ring is gold, you could pretty easily damage your prongs. Conversely, if the e-ring is plat, it could wear a groove into the band, depending on the fit and if it spins. The solution to this could be just getting a tiny tiny spacer ring in the same metal as your e-ring, that way at least what’s rubbing together on the prongs will be the same metal and therefore less damaging, and the two bands of different metals won’t have any points that are digging into one another. Also, it would lessen the look of a “gap.”

    I guess it’s important to note though that even if the two metals were the same, some (repairable) damage can and likely will still occur to your prongs over time. It’s just the name of the wearing-both-rings game.

    Post # 10
    1843 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I actually really love the plain band.  If you’re concerned about it fitting just right, would it be possible for the jeweler to make a notch in the wedding ring so that it fits right into the E-ring?

    Post # 11
    4137 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    i like the mixed look, but you’ll damage the rings if you mix platinum and white gold. they would damage each other even if there was no gap because they rub against each other.

    Post # 12
    141 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    The way the rings sit with each other looks “messy” to me, like they definitely don’t go with each other.

    but I do think a plain band is perfectly fine to mix with a more ornate ring.

    Love the sentimental value so nice that you can have extra meaning behind you rings!


    I would visit a jeweler to see if they can suggest anything!

    Maybe they can come up with a solution that you love!



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