(Closed) Does this make me a bridezilla?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

Nope. Just say it doesn’t fit in with the look of the wedding.

Could she wear a cute flower or bow headband or have a great hairstyle? That might make up for it!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

Your wedding, your attire. The Flower Girl can wear a tiara at her birthday party if she loves them. That’s the way it goes.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

Not at all!  It’s your wedding, you get to tell her what to wear! 

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

how old is the FG?   no you are not a b’zilla but when it comes to kiddies and their ability to have hissy fits plus thier over precious mommies i wouldnt stand my ground too much.  what about a headpiece with flowers instead?

 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Nope, not a bridezilla. I think telling her Mom “not the look I’m going for, how about this little number?” would go over just fine.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Nope, not a bridezilla if you suggest something in a nice way.  It’s all about how you bring it up.  I would mention that you already have the hair accesory for her and that you feel like it would be more fitting with your theme and look.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

pfffttt – shes 8!  then she is old enough to be told what to wear and suck it up – if she was 3 i would let her have the tiara but 8, nope – youve got her some lovely flowers for her to wear in her hair and i thats fine

 

 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

8 seems a little old for a tiara anyway.  Tell her what you want–it’s your wedding! (plus a flower is totally adorable!)

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I don’t think it makes you a bridezilla.  But I personally don’t have such a strong reaction to tiaras.  Actually, I really don’t like them either but I wouldn’t ask her not to wear it.  If this has potential to cause tension or a fight, I’d try to let it slide.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper

If it’s something that makes you gag, then tell her no.  It doesn’t make you a bridezilla, it just means you have a vision you want to follow.  (It’s possible she just wants more use out of the tiara.)

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

maybe she could wear it after photos at the reception?

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Does the little girl want to wear the tiara? Or does her mother want her to wear the tiara? If this was something that the little girl had her heart set on wearing, I’d probably just let it go.

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

No way- your wedding, your decision!

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