(Closed) Does this seem a little weird?

posted 6 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

We recieved two of those. I honestly didn’t think much of it. We just sent a thank you and cashed it.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

I don’t think it’s that strange. Maybe it would have been nice to get a note or something, but some people just prefer… the direct route? He is probably the kind of person who values efficiency.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Is your FI’s uncle single?  Maybe he’s just doing things the most efficient “man” way, rather than the most romantic/kind way.  lol

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@smiles4jo:  

To the point, I love it! I’d cash it and be thankful.

Post # 7
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341 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We got two of those as well from people who could not attend.. we were excited and sent a thank you right away =)

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Luv2BeachIt:  This was my first thought. Not everyone knows the “proper” way of doing things and often it seems to be the men, but not always. At least he sent something.   

Post # 9
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1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Etiquette seems to be fading these days; I’d cash it and send a thank you card.

 

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper

It would strike me as a bit strange – I’d never think to send a check with an RSVP regret (meaning, if I couldn’t attend and wanted to send somethign –  I’d send a gift or a wedding card/check).

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