(Closed) Does this seem weird???

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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368 posts
Helper bee

While I haven’t read previous posts about the family I would try to avoid wedding talk around her. She seems like a real piece of work but put yourself in her shoes. You kicked her out of the wedding party. Why would she want to hear about your wedding? I’m sure she is upset, and hurt by it. Crazy, jealous, and angry don’t mix well. It kind of sounds like a blessing in disguise that she won’t be a bridesmaid.

I would wait until your wedding is closer to approach them about your future niece being in the wedding. Make it clear you will being paying for the flower girl dress, and that it’s important to include her. Let things cool off, and I think it will work out a lot better. Also, I hope she has a very late delivery Wink

Post # 5
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368 posts
Helper bee

Oh my gosh who would take a pregnancy, and try to make someone else jealous with it? That is so messed up. I don’t even know what to say to that. It sounds like she is crazy jealous of you, and you have a long road ahead of you with her antics. I just don’t understand why cant people just be normal! Gah!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m dreading becoming pregnant first in DH’s family line… or last…. either way whether SIL or I have a baby first, it won’t be pretty for us or the kid. :/ 

She sounds a lot like the lady you mentioned and I am sorry! I don’t get people like that, people who have to have their own drama or little soap opera going on about them 24/7. 

Maybe that’s how she feels important. I feel sorry for the kid honestly, imagine how pushy she’d be as a mom to make her kid the best??? yipes. 

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