(Closed) Does your BF know you’re on Weddingbee?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 32
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

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@sillie:  Well it is!  We just also get to talk about them…and some other things Wink

Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Yes, he knows– BUT he doesn’t know much more than that it’s a women’s social site with stuff about weddings (I told him what it’s called). I sometimes find myself laughing out loud at stuff on here, and since he’s usually in the house working on something when I’m on here, he’ll say “what’s so funny?” And I’ll either tell him exactly what I’m laughing at, if it doesn’t have too much to do with engagement/marriage (because I’ve been bringing those subjects up too much lately already without random references to things on websites), or I’ll make up a partial explanation if I don’t feel like bringing the subject up again!!

Post # 34
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1991 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

He knows that I’m obsessed with everything wedding related.  I’ve been openly obsessed with weddings since the very beginning of our relationship.  He didn’t think it was a big deal early on, because I used to dable in wedding planning.  I guess he just thought I was really passionate about work.  I’ve since gone to law school & have not been planning weddings for nearly a year. I guess he’s just now realizing how deep the obssession goes, because I’m constantly looking at wedding related sites and magazines, & I can no longer use the excuse that I’m looking for ideas for a job I’m working on. He knows I’m on sites like this one, but we don’t talk about which particular site I use.  He seems to be okay with it, since we’ve recently started talking about marriage quite a bit.  I try not to talk about wedding stuff or the things I learn on this site too much.  I don’t want to overwhelm him with it or make him think I’m crazy before I get the ring. 

Post # 35
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1238 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

yes he knows but he doesnt know what or how much i write lol.  He’s just happy not to be hounded so much by me now for questions.

Post # 36
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128 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My Boyfriend or Best Friend knows, and asks what my user name is so he can find out what I write about him! He has no issues with the bee.

Post # 37
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Bumble bee

He has NO idea, and honestly, this place is the reason I have become so ring-obsessed in recent months. However, at least it’s a good outlet to vent/drool as opposed to talking to him about it! Hah!

Post # 38
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Blushing bee

How I envy the bees who have the guts to tell their SO. As for me, its my BIG gulity pleasure, more then Kesha and GCB…. I think he’d freak out a bit that I’m kinda “obsessing” about it even more than he thinks I am. I always get on when he’s not around and only once did I look at it on his computer because I know he has it to automatically delete his internet history every night (he’s kinda really into hackers never getting into his stuff) and when he walked in the door I almost jumped out of my seat, closed it really fast and pretended I had been on Left 4 Dead for a few hours…. *sigh* 

Whenever I reference anyone I’ve gotten to know on here I also say “a friend”. Its gotten soo hard when he starts to ask “who?” and I just make up a name. LOL. I’m a bad girlfriend. 

Post # 39
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602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

hahah my Fiance knows he thinks its funny

Post # 40
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1278 posts
Bumble bee

No, I haven’t told him.  It isn’t because I’ve been keeping it from him, it just hasn’t come up. We are LDR, so it isn’t like he is going to stumble upon it or anything everyday. And during our times together, I spend enjoying being with him, not on the Bee! If it ever comes up, I’ll tell him, or if he sees anything, I’ll tell him.  He would be fine with me on here, even though he doesn’t know I’m on here!

Post # 41
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1430 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

My boyfriend knows and stalks my posts on here, haha.

Post # 43
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

He knows.. doesnt seem to have any issues- ive gotten som AWESOMEEE ideas on here an hes happy as can be ..specially since i have others to talk wedding with!

Post # 44
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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@ms.jellen:  Yeah it does, haha. I’ll come home and he’ll be like “so what’s this I hear about you doing blah blah blah” and then he’ll start laughing. I’ve gotten used to it though and it doesn’t bother me. If anything I told him at least now he knows what I want and I don’t have to nag him about it, hehe.

Post # 45
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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@Dell79:  I know what site you are talking about, and that term is the reason I left. Alot of the women on there seemed a bit arrogant and uppity to me. Didn’t really have the welcoming feel the Bee has, which is why I left that site. 🙂

Post # 46
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1595 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

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@Tarheelgurl:  ugh i know it was TERRIBLE, like pledging the sorority I never wanted to pledge! those girls have a ridiculous sense of entitlement just because they have sat on a computer racking up thousands of posts over the past few years!

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