(Closed) Does your DH/DW/FI/SO Swear in Front of You?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Does your SO/FI/DH monitor his language in your presence?
    Yes. He tries his best not to swear in front of me. : (23 votes)
    16 %
    No, but he does curb his language in front of ladies in general...but is comfortable with me. : (21 votes)
    15 %
    No, he watches around older ladies and/or children, but that's about it. : (72 votes)
    50 %
    No, he pretty much says what he wants, whenever he wants. : (27 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    My Fiance and I both have terrible language. We do both watch what we say in public, around or families… and really just in general to anyone else. But when it is just the two of us in a room we say anything. Fiance actually thinks its funny (and it does crack me up) to go on swearing tirades like the dad in Christmas Story. Like he won’t even really be mad about something and he’ll just start swearing at it to make me laugh. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I cuss way more than I should, but Fiance rarely lets one go. He just doesn’t use those words very much in his vocabularly, I don’t think he’s trying to filter just on my behalf :). I’m trying to stop saying as many, too, so it definitely helps to have a non-cussing FI!

    Post # 5
    Member
    1016 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I didn’t vote because neither of us swear much so it’s not an issue for us.  Actually I’ll drop cr*p, sh*t, a$$ every now and then (rarely) but he never swears.  Thankfully!

    Post # 6
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    540 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Hell yeah he swears in front of me, but then again I “cuss like a sailor” according to him.  We know where and when to hold our tongues, but we let loose when it’s just the two of us.  However, we never swear at each other.

    Post # 7
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    109 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    My Fiance has the worst mouth (but not in front of strangers, old people, or in professional settings) mostly when he is watching sports- which is pretty much all his free time! I asked him to make it his New Year’s resolution to cut out the “f-word” in front of me. We’ll see how long that lasts!

    Post # 8
    Member
    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    He does watch what language he uses in front of kids and ladies, but he doesn’t really use alot of swear words … i on the other hand … Embarassed

    Post # 9
    Member
    2858 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

    He and I both have major potty mouths. But we watch what we say when we’re in public.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1030 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I didn’t vote because I swear WAY more than my Fiance.

    Post # 11
    Member
    256 posts
    Helper bee

    i think he swears more when hes around me, i tend to have that affect:P

    Post # 12
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    2103 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    No, he has the mouth of a sailor.  I have to remind him not to drop F-bombs when there are little kids around.

    Post # 13
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    684 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2009

     LOL. It’s weird but my husband doesn’t swear like ever. I, on the other hand, can have the mouth of a sailor sometimes. But actually like you said about your husband, my husband does swear alot in the bedroom. It’s Weird. He actually trys to get me to swear and I just can’t during that time. Its so weird. Its like we totally switch rolls. Odd….

    Post # 14
    Member
    3521 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Darling Husband and I swear quite a bit, though we’re respectful and curb it in front of family/in public/etc.

    Post # 15
    Member
    3575 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @sloth: ditto on that.

    But there is one strand of curse words he says that makes me cringe.  He uses it when he’s REALLY pissed about something and I always give him the hairy eyeball when he says it…ready?

    Rotten Whore M*th*r F*ck*er

    URGH!  Even typing it makes me cringe.

    Post # 16
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    1927 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Neither of us swear that much. Except when I catch the kitchen stove on fire and start screaming “Sh*t sh*t sh*t sh*t!!!”like I did Monday night. Neither of us get offended when the other one swears.

     

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