(Closed) Does your FI look at other woman?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Does your FI look at other woman?
    Yes, and makes it obvious (stare) : (25 votes)
    10 %
    Yes, but is discreet about it (quick glance) : (107 votes)
    44 %
    NO : (37 votes)
    15 %
    Not that I know of : (56 votes)
    23 %
    Other....explain : (16 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    463 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I’ve never caught my Darling Husband looking at another woman.  He doesn’t talk about any woman if front of me either.  He is a man though so I’m sure he does.  He just has enough sense to not be dumb about it.

    Post # 4
    10287 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    He won’t gawk or do a complete 180 but sure, he looks at other women. All men do to some capacity, some are just more discrete than others. I’m totally fine with it. Actually, I’ve been known to point out eye candy that I know he would like.

    Post # 5
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I actually have to point them out to him LOL  There is a woman who lives in the neighborhood who wears no bras (ta-tas bouncing all over the place) in white shirts! Why does she think that’s okay is beyond my understanding.

    Post # 6
    50 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Very rarely do I ever notice it. And it’s always a girl that looks like Vanessa Marcil, so it doesn’t bother me as she and I look like total opposites. We’ve been together for 8 years so I don’t particularly get jealous over that anymore.

    Post # 7
    5009 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    He looks at other women, but so do I (and I look at other men). We trust each other and we’ll quite happily perve (or bitch) together. It doesn’t mean that we aren’t going to be faithful but that we can joke together like good mates.

    Post # 8
    5073 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    well sure.  He has eyes.

    he’s a boob man so I try to point out the voluptuous ones to him. Don’t want him missing anything Wink 

    Post # 10
    871 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I voted 1… and I don’t care, I know he’s coming home with me anyway. We both point out hot chicks, we have always done that. I have no problems with him looking.

    Post # 11
    1526 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Of course he does!  I look at other men, too.  One night during our honeymoon we played a game sitting on the boardwalk in Greece pointing out who we think each other would sleep with!  We are very open about that kind of stuff.  We know that neither of us would ever act upon it but we both like to look and flirt.  

    Post # 12
    23597 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Okay. So a lot of my friends think I’m crazy, but I have a different perspective on this topic.

    Let’s face it.  Men are always going to look at other women, whether we know about it or not.  There are plenty of other fights that we women choose to pick with our men, no matter how much we love them and no matter how much we know they love us.  So, my view?

    May as well just check out the girl right alongside him.  If I notice him staring, I’ll say something like “woah, hot damn”, and we’ll laugh about it and move on.


    Post # 13
    1115 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’m sure he does. Hell, I do. 

    Post # 14
    14656 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    HAHA..  I’m SURE he does.  Hell, sometimes I notice a gorgeous woman and point her out to him.

    Post # 15
    240 posts
    Helper bee

    My SO and I both look at the opposite sex, and we don’t try to hide it from each other, either! In fact, we made a game of it. We have a code language (which I won’t go into since it’s super silly) to point out people we think are attractive, or that we think the other person would find attractive. If I see a cute girl that I think my Boyfriend or Best Friend would appreciate, I’ll say something like, “Cute girl 2:00” and he check her out and let me know if he agrees or not. Sometimes we’ll even rate them and compare reasons why one of thought the other was hotter or not.

    I like this because it totally takes the pressure off. He’s allowed to look, I’m allowed to look, and better yet – in a strange way we’re doing it together. It’s human nature to notice other attractive people, so instead of fighting it we tried to find a healthy way to embrace it that both of us felt comfortable with. It works for us. 🙂

    Post # 16
    1036 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    has my husband says : “i maybe attached to the porch but doesnt mean i cant bark at the cars that drive by”

    everyone “checks others out” guy or girl. opposite sex. its only in our nature.

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