(Closed) Does your FI tell you if he gets hit on?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
181 posts
Blushing bee

My SO tells me when he gets hit on and we usually laugh about it together. No reason to get upset if he didn’t flirt back ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

agree with pp.  If it happens, most of the time we laugh it off. 

It’s not his fault he didn’t have a ring on.  He didn’t flirt back, AND he set her straight.  THEN, he told you about it!!  No reason to be upset at all!  Sounds like you have a great guy! ๐Ÿ™‚


Post # 5
58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I actually appreciated the one time my Fiance told me he got hit on. As I was listening, I felt a bit jealous, but I kinda liked it in a weird way. As if it were validation that I still had a “thing” for him you know? I mean, it’s obvious I do, but it was interesting to feel jealousy because he’s never made me jealous.

Now, if he were to tell you every other day about all the women that drool over him, that’s different. That makes it seem like he LIKES the attention, and attention-seeking men get in trouble.

Post # 6
347 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My fiance tells me when he gets hit on like PP we laugh about it and move on no need to get upset. You should be happy other women find what you have intriguing. As long as he doesn’t cross the line no need to trip.

Post # 7
804 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

My guy was in the supermarket by himself one evening when this blonde woman with fake boobs kept walking past Looking at him. He stopped in one of the aisles to look for a particular product and she came past him again but this time she leaned over right beside him while staring at him the entire time. Like the OP’s guy my man was in his work clothes, although he wears a suit to work . My boyfriend is like a big cuddly teddy bear even with his suit on and he has a great sense of humour so after she blatantly leaned over he said “listen love I’ve only come in here to get stuff for my dinner!”

He told me all this and just like some of the others I was in fits of laughter as I can just imagine him doing that! 

Post # 8
363 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

ur guy sounds really open and honest like a real catch, i can understand u mindin as being the girls in the relationships i think we are not really used to the idea of our man getting so directly hit on as girls arnt as likely to directly pick people up as men ( in my experience). but he told u and set her straight so even though it made you feel funny think about how lucky you are to have such a great guy

Post # 9
758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Yes, he does. I love it, so it doesn’t upset me at all.  I know it makes me feel good when some guy shows interest in me, so I’m sure it gives Fiance an egoboost.  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
131 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Mine tells me … when he even notices in the first place! ๐Ÿ™‚ Sometimes he can be oblivious to more subtle flirting.

Post # 11
1341 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2019

My SO tells me when it happens. I get a little jealous, but it’s not like I can stop other women from noticing his attractiveness. But if they try to go further than flirting, I’ll have a problem.

I’d tell my SO if it happened to me, buuuut it doesn’t, so.. XD

Post # 12
8482 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

Me and Alex both work in gas stations so we get tons of crazy customers. We always tell each other our stories when we get home. This often includes stories about getting hit on (from both of us.) We always just laugh about it.

Post # 13
71 posts
Worker bee

He sure does.

But he’s a musician. It kind of comes with the territory. I’ve never asked him to tell me, but it often comes with a funny story that he wants to share. Never really bothers me. He’s hot, and sweet and stupidly talented.

And he comes home to me ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 14
1212 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Yes, we both tell each other and then laugh about it. I think it’s kind of a fun way of flirting with each other..like, “Hey! I’m hot stuff, seeeee?” 

Post # 15
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

My husband just told me he never gets hit on … aww lol. Yes I think we would tell each other just because it’s really no big deal and we laugh about it. 

Post # 16
3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My Darling Husband always tells me and we laugh, because the stories are so ridic. I stopped telling him if it happens to me though, because he gets defensive. He gets hit on more than me and I just laugh when it happens, because usually it is from women WAY older than him and they are so ridic about it. I guess it always perplexes me why he gets upset if someone hits on me, though.

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