(Closed) does your fiance/SO “like” your ring?

posted 9 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
7605 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Mine likes mine.  We designed it together!

Post # 4
4344 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@colorofmyheart:  Mine said “yea”. But I don’t think he really cares, he just likes that I like it. I disliked the style of ring he planned on getting me (he proposed the day after we met with a cheap ring in that style, which I wore all the time for a couple months). He also didn’t like the style of ring I decided I liked originally, because he thought it was dated because his mom happened to have that style (which I was unaware of). I think you two should keep looking until you find something you both love, because the ring will say a lot about what he likes too, since everyone will assume he picked it.

Post # 5
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Lol well I would think so since just like 

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@Juliepants: he worked with the jeweler to design it.   

Post # 6
2141 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

He loves my ring. He takes my hand and stares at it all the time. We picked it out together though.

Post # 7
3616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Mine was just like your SO. He hated every ring I tried to show him. He picked something out on his own and althought I hated it when I first saw it because I was sooooo disappointed it wasn’t any of the rings I’d shown him. When I stopped thinking about all the other rings and saw the ring he had picked for me I realized it was really “me” and it was perfect.  I know it’s hard, but trust your man will pick something that is you.

Post # 8
1595 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@colorofmyheart:  Why don’t you buy that wedding band yourself as a RHR- I am going to be honest I think it is totally overpriced for what it is…I have one VERY similar that was purchased for $300!

Post # 9
3175 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I was torn between wanting a halo & the style I have now. He said no way to halo (“They’re hideous”). I also wanted an elongated cushion, but he wanted something symmetrical on all sides (he’s an engineer- he is weird about details like that lol). So, I did get the ring I wanted, within parameters 🙂

Post # 10
1139 posts
Bumble bee

He loves mine and says he has never seen any other more beautiful ring. Plus we semi picked it out together.

Post # 11
248 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Like a few other PP we designed it together, along with my wedding band, so yep he does like it. He said he wanted me to be happy with whatever we designed but we each put our imput into the final look to where he is happy with it too.

Post # 12
750 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

He loves it because he designed it! lol With every other ring I showed him he kept saying ‘they look the same’. So he designed my ring and now it’s cutom and one of a kind and he is so proud. 🙂 The other night my friends boyfriend commented on my ring and said he liked it because it was unique and different. I thought it was different to get a compliment from a man.

Post # 13
2594 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Well, he picked it, so of course!


OP, the ring was not what I’d envisioned when I saw it–that’s not to say I hated it, it was just unexpected. At first, I thought it was lovely because it really does represent who my DH is. Then, I realized that it really does more or less represent “us”–it’s exactly the kind of ring that my DH would go for–very declarative and architectural and clean-lined (he also wouldn’t do the whole flowery art nouveau thing!), but also delicate and balanced for me. Now, DH and I have moderately similar tastes so we may have had an easier time than you do if you have opposite tastes!

Another thing to remember, though, is that when it came time for me to choose my wedding band, I definitely chose what *I* wanted. 

Post # 14
419 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I originally wanted a solitaire, but when we started looking he really wanted to buy me a three stone ring. In the end we found one that I loved. I had the ‘this is it’ feeling and it was a three stone ring. It had elements that we both loved and I’m really happy to have a ring that he liked too 🙂

Post # 15
10354 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Why does it matter if he likes it? He isn’t wearing it! It’s a gift to you!

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