(Closed) Does your FI/DH/SO appreciate nice lingerie?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you like sexy/luxurious lingerie and does your FI/DH/SO appreciate it when you wear it?
    I like sexy/luxurious lingerie and my FI/DH/SO loves it too : (86 votes)
    47 %
    I like sexy/luxurious lingerie but my FI/DH/SO doesn't : (28 votes)
    15 %
    I'm not mad on lingerie but my FI/DH/SO loves it : (22 votes)
    12 %
    I'm not mad on lingerie and nor is my FI/DH/SO : (40 votes)
    22 %
    Other (please let me know what other is) : (7 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    796 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I asked my Fiance about it, and he really didn’t give me a straight answer. So I tried it one night just to see what happened. Drove him a little crazy. If nothing else, it helps to heighten the anticipation a little. Changes things up a little.

    Post # 4
    2253 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Fiance and I love lingerie. Any time I go clothes shopping I always head over to the lingerie dep’t to see what they have that may catch my or his eye. At my local mall, there was a store called “Orchid” that carried the best things at super low prices. I was so sad when they closed.

    Post # 5
    2442 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Darling Husband and I recently had a conversation about this.  I have an assortment of sexy lingerie in my closet (from my past) but I don’t wear it for Darling Husband.  I wore it for him once and I didn’t get the reaction I was looking for/used to.  So I figured… Why bother?  I told Darling Husband I didn’t wear it because he didn’t seem to care so he asked me to try again.  I wore it again and though his reaction was “better” I didn’t feel it was genuine.  His reaction doesn’t make me enjoy wearing it like I used to.  His interest is the same whether I wear it or not.  So… my sexy lingerie stays in the back of my closet.  

    Post # 6
    1088 posts
    Bumble bee

    i like lingerie, they’re fun. and Fiance loves it ! he gets really excited about them lol

    Post # 7
    4682 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    We both love lingerie.

    Post # 8
    2892 posts
    Sugar bee

    Isn’t that the point? Finding that one little thing that’s so over the top sexy that he can’t help but rip it off? ๐Ÿ™‚ I LOVE lingerie. My underwear drawer is one of the most expensive things I own and it’s been worth every last penny. Great quality, super sexy, and it’s the perfect spice for an already fantastic sex life. 

    Best line my guy has ever used, “That looks fantastic. Wanna know where else it would look fantastic? On the floor in the corner.” ๐Ÿ™‚ Maybe it’s not everyone’s flavor, but I love it.

    Post # 10
    9824 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    Not really. He can take it or leave it.

    Post # 11
    3482 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I like fun and sexy lingerie, but Darling Husband wouldn’t care either way if I were in lacy underwear or a paper bag, lol.

    Post # 12
    2114 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    He likes it for a moment but prefers me naked.

    Post # 13
    598 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    my FH says it just holds us up LOL…if you know what I mean ๐Ÿ˜€

    Post # 14
    515 posts
    Busy bee

    Fiance is a big fan ๐Ÿ™‚ And I enjoy it as well. It’s just fun and sexy. It drives him wild, haha.

    Post # 15
    7295 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    @CanadianMermaid:  this.  

    and i bought lingerie for the first time for our honeymoon and he did love it, but he would never request and i have asked before if he wants me to wear it more often and he said he doesn’t care since it will just come off anyway …. and he said in words that fit how my Darling Husband thinks all the time “why waste money on it?”

    Post # 16
    735 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2018

    Mine appreciates it i think! He seems to like when i’ve made a bit of effort =D

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