Does your guy like cuddling before sleeping?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Does your guy like cuddling?

    We both do

    He does, I don't

    I do, he doesn't

    We both don't

  • Post # 2
    3835 posts
    Honey bee

    We cuddle for a bit and then we break off from one another.  Then we wake up and cuddle again.

    Post # 3
    781 posts
    Busy bee

    We both like to cuddle. We usually sleep near each other too; he usually puts an arm around me while we’re asleep. My ex husband wouldn’t even sleep in the same bed as me so it’s quite the change being that intimate with someone while sleeping.

    Post # 4
    7982 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    He likes to cuddle. I like my space.

    Post # 5
    731 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2018

    We cuddle, but then he starts to snore and I make him roll over. We keep our feet touching, though, or I keep a leg thrown over him. I hate when he’s not around at night, but hes a police officer so he’s often not here. I feel like when he is here I can’t stop touching him but we’re both very touchy. 

    Post # 6
    4398 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    I go to bed before him, so he tucks me in and loves on me for a minute before going off to do his thing. We cuddle in the morning though…makes it hard to get out of bed and get going but we’re sooo cozy!

    Post # 7
    5780 posts
    Bee Keeper

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    eeniebeans :  This is us as well. DH is a cuddler. I’m happy to be affectionate when we’re awake, but when I’m in bed and sleepy for some reason I feel hyper-sensitive to touch (physically, not emotionally)….a tactile thing that’s heightened when I’m tired. And I like my space. 

    Post # 8
    10470 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2016

    We cuddle before going breaking apart to our separate sides of the bed to sleep. Neither of us like to cuddle or even really touch when we are trying to sleep but love a bit of cuddling before bed.

    Post # 9
    338 posts
    Helper bee

    Same as some PPs, we both like to cuddle pre and post-sleep, but not throughout the night. 

    Post # 10
    311 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2018

    We always cuddle before falling asleep. Sometimes we’ll stay that way, but usually he’ll roll over once he dozes off. We still touch though- our bums or feet. It’s comforting to feel connected! I’m a really light sleeper, so generally I’ll wake up once or twice in the night and he’ll roll over and spoon me again for a while. We’re both hot sleepers, so it doesn’t last all night!  

    Post # 11
    4242 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Husband loves a good nighttime cuddling.  Me not so much.  Honestly I usually fall asleep pretty quickly so I prefer not to cuddle too much and I love my space…which is why we need a king sized bed.  Granted when it’s cold and wintery I usually change my tune hah.

    Post # 12
    3279 posts
    Sugar bee

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    desertgypsy :  DH tucks me in too! It’s the best! 

    We never cuddle right before sleeping. DH runs super hot and I cannot stand being hot/warm and trying to sleep. It drives me nuts. He comes to bed after me, but I always wake up with a foot touching him or a leg draped over some part of him. 

    We cuddle other times, but falling asleep is definitely not one of them. 

    Best purchase we’ve ever made is the king size bed. I cannot stand being crowded during sleep. Not being able to turn freely? Yeah, we’re going to have issues…

    Post # 13
    3818 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2017 - City, State

    I don’t mind cuddling in the morning if I have the time, but when I go to bed, it’s to go to sleep so I don’t like cuddling before going to bed. 

    Post # 14
    956 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2019

    We both love cuddling. We tens to cuddle before falling asleep, but separate when we actually start to fall asleep. We’ll randomly spoon one another throughout the night though. It works because I’m a huge cuddle bug! So very glad he likes it too

    Post # 15
    1604 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    Actually we both don’t like cuddling! We’ll cuddle in the morning but never before sleeping. We’re definitely the odd ones out but I’m glad we both feel the same way!

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