(Closed) Does your husband make less effort to initiate sex now that your prego?

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
  • poll: Does your husband initiate sex less or more now that your prego?
    LESS : (31 votes)
    72 %
    MORE : (12 votes)
    28 %
  • Post # 4
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    634 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Darling Husband finds me sexier when pregnant, he did for our first aswel.  I can’t get him off me!

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @luvalways86:  Same here, and he is so hesitant about missionary position.  He’s afraid he’s going to smoosh her.  lol.  

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    @luvalways86:  My Darling Husband is just worried about making me uncomfortable. My Breast have gone from a 34C to a 36Dirty Delete and he is loving that but overall I am very uncomfortable with my body right now and he knows it so he’s been letting me decide when I want to sexytime. Also as only 18w my favorite position doesn’t work anymore so it is hard to get my O.

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I voted less…but in his defense, it’s because I always shut him down!  I’m never in the mood anymore…poor guy!

    Post # 8
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    2007 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    I’m with bunnylovesbear.  His drive is as high as ever – and he thinks pregnancy is incredibly sexy – but my drive tanked in the first tri and it’s only VERY slowly coming back.  So he initiates less often but I think that’s only because he can tell I’m not in a convincable mood.    

    Post # 9
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    My Darling Husband knows that I am terrified of sex in the first trimester, I know it is fine but there is no reasoning with amount of hormone craziness. It was this way for our second and still true in this pregnancy. So he leaves it to me to make the moves. In my last pregnancy we had sex all the way through though so once we get through this fragile period we more then make up for the lapse and he gets back to being a move maker.

    Post # 10
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    2299 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    No, I would say he wants it even more now. I feel bad b/c I usually turn him down since I’m in the third trimester now and getting uncomfortable.

    Post # 11
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    367 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Yes!! Definitely less.  It is driving me crazy!  I’ve pointed it out to him several times…but it’s like he thinks I’m super fragile now.

    I hope it doesn’t stay this way!!

    Post # 12
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    155 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    He initiated it less but I didn’t care because I was a horn-dog and had to have it, lol!

    Post # 13
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    691 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    He intitiates a lot but I turn him down a lot… But when I want it, I have to have it! He’s happy to oblige 🙂 But he has said that he is hugely turned on by the pregnancy… I’m still getting used to feeling my boys move around while we’re “together” lol

    Post # 14
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    382 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    We haven’t had any sexy time since the BFP a week and half ago. There was spotting that I didn’t understand and it freaked me out a bit. So, we’ve not been doing anything until I go to the doc on Monday. I think we might have to have a little fun tonight though….it’s been too long.

    Post # 15
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    2007 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    @shimmerofheaven:  Oh man.  I hadn’t thought of that!  That is definitely going to take a bit for me to get comfortable with that!  

    Post # 16
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    144 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I wish I could even have sex! My 20 week ultrasound revealed that my placenta is covering my cervix so until it moves out of the way, no intimacy for us since it’ll cause bleeding. Get it while you can ladies 🙂

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