(Closed) Does your man make a conscious effort to not ogle other women?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Does your man make a conscious effort to not ogle other women?
    Yes, he makes a conscious effort to not ogle other women, and I prefer it that way because... : (122 votes)
    57 %
    Yes, he makes a conscious effort to not ogle other women, but I find it unnecessary because... : (24 votes)
    11 %
    No, he doesn't go out of his way to refrain from ogling other women, and I encourage it because... : (51 votes)
    24 %
    No, he doesn't go out of his way to refrain from ogling other women; I'd prefer if he *tried* not to : (17 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 4
    Member
    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    He certainly doesn’t gape at other women when we’re out, but I don’t think that’s something he’s ever really done. It isn’t him.

    Will he make comments about Natalie Portman being pretty fit and hot in a film (or some other actress)? Yep. Doesn’t bother me a bit because a) I agree she’s hot, and b) When Hugh Jackman comes on screen, I make the same comments.

    Post # 5
    Member
    6360 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Yes he does, and he’s really good at it too (not ogling). I can’t tolerate ogling and he knows that and doesn’t want me to be unhappy… so the less a woman is wearing, the less he looks at her (at least when I am there, but he’s not a big ogler in general anyway. He criticized a married male aquaintance of ours for having “a wandering eye” and he considers this severe criticism, tantamount to “he better not cheat on her, that dirtbag”). I don’t even have to look at him at this point, I know he won’t be ogling. He is almost at the expert level where I can take him to Rio and feel great!

    Post # 6
    Member
    5965 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    I would never ask Mr. 99 to do something I myself, cannot…and I’m sorry, I love my husband, adore him endlessly and lust after his big, sexy body…but when a young, delicious, just a little naive waiter happens to walk by, I help myself to a big heapin eyeful…it’s part of being alive…so yeah, I don’t think it’s fair to expect him to abstain from something I can’t do either.

    Post # 7
    Member
    216 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    +1

    That’s my guy too. And don’t get me started on Adam Levine…swooooon

    Post # 8
    Member
    1710 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

    I haven’t noticed him ogling, so I don’t really know if he’s conciously trying not to…I do know he calls me beautiful all the time though!

    Post # 9
    Member
    11752 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I’ve never seen him obviously checking out other women in front of me.  I wouldn’t really care if he was being appropriate and not creepy about it though – I can appreciate a good looking woman. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    1710 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

    @Nona99:  True!!!  

    Post # 11
    Member
    665 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    He just simply doesnt, I know that is the best possible case and may not seem true to some, but I often side glance to see if he looks but never have I ever caught him. We’ve been together 7 years and not once has he. If he did I wouldnt shoot him for it, I wouldnt be stoked on it but what can you do, there’s always these girls wearing next to nothing everywhere you go. I think most guys are looking as just a plain “people watch” I look at people all the time.

    Post # 12
    Member
    2961 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    No he does not obviously ogle women just like I do not obviously ogle men. But I asm very secure in regards to my looks so it probably would not bother me if he did!

    Post # 13
    Member
    5784 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    He’s never been terrible about it but I don’t think he’s making any special effort to avoid it. I’m usually the ones who’s like “oooo boobies”.

    Post # 14
    Member
    1475 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @bowsergirl:  +1. No, he doesn’t ogle when we are out in public. I don’t think he makes a conscious effort NOT to, he just isn’t that way.

    But we both talk about how sexy Jennifer Aniston and Johnny Depp are!!

    Post # 15
    Member
    3553 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I didn’t vote because none of the options fit. Fiance doesn’t go out of his way to not oogle people, he just doesn’t do it to start with. Once in a blue moon he’ll mention that some actress is pretty, but I can’t say I’ve ever caught him oogling anyone but me, that he does frequently and up close.

    Post # 16
    Member
    1685 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @Nona99:  +1

    I honestly don’t even notice him checking out other women.  I’m not sure why it doesn’t bother me.  It just doesn’t. 

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