Post # 1
This post is specifically to Bees that post rather intimate questions in Emotional tab. Anything from “he cheated, what do I do?” through “He doesn’t want to propose” to “I want to cancel my wedding”.
I am just very curious if your partner know about the fact that you post questions about your relationships etc. on this website? Are you open with him? What are your fears/objections about showing him this site and your posts? How do you think he would react reading your posts?
To start it off I am rather new to the site (I was a lurker for looong time before making account) and my partner doesn’t know about this website. Maybe down the road when we are in the middle of wedding planning he will know but he mostly doesn’t really care what websites I visit. And yes, I believe he would be upset that I posted our “dirty laundry” on here even though it is rather anonymous.
What about you?
Post # 2
My partner knows (and thinks the whole site is very amusing). I don’t clear everything that I post with him, but only because I know he doesn’t care.
Post # 3
He knows and laughs at me. Even with the one post that I was mad at him. He knew my hurt long beforehand and understood I needed outside perspective
Post # 4
My husband found out before we were engaged and he kind of freaked. He googled a problem we were having and my very specific post came up. He confronted me. It sucked
Post # 5
That is what I am a little afraid of. I don’t erase my internet history because I don’t wan to feel like I am hiding stuff from my SO. But knowing his personality and how private he is, I think he might be upset about few things I said about us here. But I feel like there are some things I can’t say to him directly because I want others opinion on the subject. I am sorry it was unpleasant for you. I hope you worked it through.
Post # 6
DH totally knows I’m on weddingbee, but I don’t post many, if any, intimate details about our lives. I also didn’t join until after we got engaged.
Post # 7
Fiance knows about the wedding forums. We have no shame and nothing to hide. Except my wedding dress lol. I don’t think I’ve ever trash talked him though. I love that fat bastard hahaha!!! Seriously though. He doesn’t care what happens in Internet world.
Post # 8
my Fiance knows and thinks it’s cute. He will ask me “what r the bees buzzing about today?” But, I don’t post any personal details that r too intimate. The Internet is not as anonomous as one might think… Especially when we post pics with identifying objects in them.
Post # 10
He knows. I didn’t tell him at first, I’ve had an account for a couple years now, and just recently am I telling him as he stalked me to find out. We were watching tv in bed and I was on my ipad and he his and he kept trying to look over to see what I was typing adn laughing at.
Post # 11
He knows about WB and thinks it’s cute, he likes that I’m excited to get married. But he also knows I would never post intimate details on an account with pictures of him linked to it, that would piss him off and (in my opinion) be really inappropriate.
If I ever had something serious and super personal to talk about on here I would make an anonymous account.
Post # 12
Me: You know that wedding website I always talk about?
Him: Huh? What website?
Me: I literally talk about it at least once a week. What’s it called?
Him: I don’t know what you’re talking about.
That answers that.
Post # 13
He knows and doesn’t care. But I don’t post any super personal, intimate details of our lives/relationship so there isn’t much to care about.
Post # 14
why don’t you remove the picture of youR faces identifying you if he would be upset? It’s pretty easy to stay anonymous…