Post # 1
Always curious about what other guys are like because my fiancee isn’t really into BJs which kind of bothers me..Because I love to receive/give…it’s definitely not because I dont know how to give one properly, he just says its never been his thing… He wouldn’t stop me from giving him one but doesn’t enjoy it as much as I do… 🙁
I wish he was.
PS- He loves to give.
Post # 3
He said “well my answer is HELL YES but also, its really I just wanna do “it” more than just get a BJ though” and then giggled.
Post # 4
You seriously had to ask this question??? I would say 99.999% of men love them.
Post # 5
He loves them when I give them, but I think he’d happily go without a lot of the time. He’ll never ask for them but that’s a part of our relationship dynamic (I’m the boss, he’s the b*tch).
Post # 6
I’m a fan. I don’t need them and am happy to do other things, but I’m a pretty solid fan, as I am of most sex.
Post # 7
My partner loves them and always has and I think part of the reason he is marrying me is that I am the best he’s ever had at giving them.
I have to say you’re very wrong. I have encountered many men, either one I was dating or just friends, or just random guys on internet boards who do not like them/cannot finish with them and therefore find them useless.
ETA: if a guy doesn’t like BJs its a deal breaker for me. It’s equal to him not liking to give oral to me. Buh-bye!
Post # 8
@unsecreto: That is the FIRST time I have heard that a guy isn’t really into BJs. But on the flip side, it doesn’t surprise me all that much though because i am not into oral sex…. for MYSELF. I don’t like receiving it. I like giving it though.
Post # 9
@Oneeleven: “My partner loves them and always has and I think part of the reason he is marrying me is that I am the best he’s ever had at giving them. “
LMAO, at least I’m not the only one! He laughs at me when I say that, though.. always gets a good chuckle out of it, and then we have a good cuddle sesh, and talk about how much we love each other. D’aw!
Post # 10
I always think men who do not like them just haven’t had someone do it well enough. My ex was like that. Always saying that he’s never cum and it takes a woman so long to do it. I don’t want to brag, but I made him cum in 5 minutes.
I love doing it. 🙂
Post # 11
@Miss Tattoo: lmao thats what I always think too. Same for when girls don’t like receiving. Someone isn’t doing something properly.
We both love giving and receiving.
Post # 12
That is what I was thinking too and actually wrote it out but was afraid of offending so I erased that part of my post. There is a huge difference between a BJ from a girl who is very… enthusiastic and and one from someone who is bobbing her head up and down, gagging every two seconds.
Post # 13
I’m going to have to agree with the PPs who said that guys who say they don’t like BJs just haven’t ever been given a good one.
Post # 14
@Oneeleven: lol you know I don’t care about offending. And you are right. There is a difference. I mean, there are some nights where I’m just not in the mood to do it and it really shows. It’s slower, he’s not really into it, etc. The nights where I’ve been thinking about doing it all day and basically pin him against a wall when he gets home are the ones he loves. He even said his ex gf’s hated doing it and he hated getting it from them because it wasn’t as enjoyable. I mean, I’m sure it’s enjoyable even when it’s bad. ha ha!
Post # 15
I dated a couple of guys in the past who weren’t that into them. I could have been getting fed a line, but both said they’d never had an orgasm exclusively from oral before. It was kind of odd because I felt like, “doesn’t every guy love them?” One of the two even had a contest with me to see if I could make him finish that way just because I had never not been able to fully show my talents in that dept before. I think as long as other parts of your intimacy are great that I wouldn’t worry about it.
Post # 16
My Fiance loves BJs and always asks for them. However he has never gotten off from one. Not just from me, but from anyone he has been with. He hasn’t gotten off from just handjobs either. In fact, he didn’t get off from sex or just plain old masturbation and porn until he had been sexually active for 2 years. With that being said, I do think that it’s a little offensive that you all are saying that guys who don’t like them or haven’t gotten off from them must not be getting good enough blow jobs. Especially since the OP stated that her man doesn’t like them, are you trying to make her feel bad or inadequate?