(Closed) Does your SO get upset talking about dates?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
115 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Well, if you are talking to your Boyfriend or Best Friend and not your Fiance about it he may be a little freaked out. I waited for Nathan to start talking about getting married before I brought it up. Stop talking about it and wait for him to tell you his opinion 🙂

Post # 5
767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

My guy doesn’t mind. Even before we started getting more serious about getting engaged I always joked about a certain date because it was the same day of the month as our dating anniversary (and in a season I want to get married in). Now I’ve brought up getting married closer, and when he thinks would be a good time, etc. He doesn’t have too much of an opinion, but it doesn’t bother him. So, sorry I can’t commiserate, but my guy doesn’t get bothered by it.

Post # 6
68 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

We knew our date LITERALLY the DAY after we first started talking about getting married. Another reason I love that guy!

Post # 8
841 posts
Busy bee

Yeah, my Fiance does. But I think it’s because we are going to have two wedding dates (blame immigration :/). To be honest? Talking about dates pisses the heck outta me too! :(. It’s just not fair!

Post # 9
1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I told my Fiance I had already researched dates about 20 minutes after he proposed and told him April 3, 2011.  He just smiled and said “whatever you want, honey.”

God I love my Fiance.

Post # 10
1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Maybe he is funny about it because he thinks it may ruin the surprise of an engagement?

My boy believes that you get married a year after you propose and I can’t convince him that waiting longer than a year is OK!

That said, we don’t really talk about dates as such… our wedding will either have to be in November or April – around sporting seasons. Not so much for him missing games, but for our friends so that we can make sure they are all able to come.

Post # 11
475 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yeah, mine is pretty indifferent about 3/4 of the year and does the “uh I don’t know” – I think he just thinks I should get the season I want, as long as it isn’t his busy season… he is an accountant, so january – april are off limits.

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