(Closed) Does your SO know about this site?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
9944 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yes, my Fiance knows.  He’s fine with it.

Post # 33
2564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Yep, I call it “the wedding board” and have even told him about certain threads and have shown him a couple of things here. He’s cool with it. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 34
4474 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Yeah, he knows.  I hid it from him for a long time, but finally got busted.  He always misremembers my name as Fishword, though.  


It’s funny, he’s become fascinated by the Bee.  He asks me what’s going on with the Bee, what the Bees are up to.  He’s also gotten really into the Waiting board, because it gives him insight into what I went through during the waiting period.  He also is impressed by the layout of the site and how well run it is.

Post # 36
4800 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yes, sometimes I hide it because he teases me, especially since we’re already married. This is generally our convo every time I’m on the computer.

Him: What are you doing?

Me: Nothing! *as I change the angle so he can’t see the screen*

Him: Are you talking to your boyfriend?

Me: Yes, that is totally what I’m doing, I’m talking to my secret boyfriend and I don’t want you to see.

Him: Nooo you’re not. You’re on that wedding website again. How are the wedding people? 

Post # 37
3354 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I call it “my wedding forums” xD

Post # 38
585 posts
Busy bee

LOL. I’m assuming he knows I’m on some-kind-of-wedding-something because I’ve showed him ring posts a few times (although he was probably just looking at the pictures), and I openly search for ring stuff on my phone, iPad, computer, etc, and mostly it’s on WeddingBee or BTD.


Post # 39
1029 posts
Bumble bee

He knows. He caught me looking at it, and I said, it’s not JUST wedding stuff. They have posts about relationships, and other girlie stuff. He laughed. I told him about a poll I read the other day on a “message board” and his response was “Oh, was it that wedding one you go on?” haha. I reiterated again that it’s not just wedding stuff. He just laughs and says, “Uh huh..sure..” Boys.

Post # 40
2491 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

When we were engaged, he would see the colours on the screen and go “How are all the wedding people doing? What’s the big drama?”.


Now he just looks confused. Yesterday we had this convo:

Him: “You know… we’re married.”

Me: “Really….? Are ya sure?!”

Him: “I mean, why are you still on the wedding website?”

Me: “Well, it kinda goes beyond wedding things.”

Him: “Like what?”

Me: “Er… babies and houses and helping people who are planning a wedding.”

Him: *shakes head* “I don’t get it.”

Post # 41
355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My fiancee knows, and he makes fun of me continuously! Ha! He also has a “bee” voice that he’ll do, to come up with stupid questions about weddings. It’s pretty hilarious….and it always ends with a Bzzzzz. Ha!

I keep wanting to post my dress on here…but I don’t want him to see it….I may go anonymous soon, just for that post! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 42
1293 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

A lot of these made me laugh.. they are all just jealous that we spend so much time together bees!!

My SO knows about a forum that I “read”… but doesnt know my name, the site, or that I actually post every day!

I will tell him once we are engaged, so hopefully soon. When I do though, he will act like all of your boys.. making fun and asking sarcastically about drama  haha

Post # 43
5282 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yep he sure does – and he knows that almost 3 years after our wedding that I am still on it. Wink 

Post # 44
908 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Hahaha yes. He’s grateful I have a place to talking about weddings that isn’t with him, I think. Though I’m always trying to tell him about something I read on here, so it probably isn’t helping him too much! 

Post # 45
1078 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

No, he would hassle me if he knew.  Haha!  ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 46
1719 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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@Neetch:  This is so me, when I first got on he rolled his eyes was like “really?”  Then I told him it would help shut me up, THEN I start talking about all the stuff I read on here!  He listens to me but I know in his head he saying this shit was supposed to help shut her up! lol Thank goodness he understands my craziness and loves me for it ๐Ÿ™‚

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