(Closed) Does your SO know you are on here?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 47
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482 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

NOPE!! I am a bit of a tom boy, and certainly not one to obsess over something so girly as a wedding, so I would be subject to merciless teasing from SO if he knew I was on here. I don’t know what to say, as soon as wedding talk started happening between us, it’s like a switch was flipped and suddenly my ovaries were thinking about engagement rings and wedding dresses!

Post # 49
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192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

He sure does! I tell him about different threads and posts, he doesnt mind. He also knew that I was an acyive member of the hive when I was waiting too 🙂

Post # 50
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1105 posts
Bumble bee

Yes he does! He loves that I have a group of bees to help me wait with! (Totally serious, too!)

I think he also secretly likes that I will be 100% in control of the eventual wedding because of the advice, tips and help form here!  I let him read some of what I have posted before because it has been personal stuff between us but I felt like I did not have anyone else to ask about the situation/event.

Post # 51
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232 posts
Helper bee

Yes! He thinks it’s cute. I’m also 99.9% sure he browses around here himself.

Post # 52
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3563 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

No, SO doesn’t know. I needed a place to vent where others can relate! The Bee keeps me from nagging him about it, even though I know it’s coming soon! (He said by the end of the year and few months ago!!) I’m the type of person that NEEDS to be in the know, waiting and not mentioning anything wedding related the past few weeks have been absolute torture! 

However, he has seen my “Wedding Folder” on my PC desktop with ideas and such for our wedding, he’s even given his imput on things like colors, flowers, and type/style of dress.  He’s also hoping that once he proposes and I buy a dress that I’ll quit watching “Say Yes to the Dress” or any of the shows wedding related…uhhh no! If he can sit around and play Halo or Assassin’s Creed for hours a night, I can watch a 30 minute show whenever I want to! LOL

Post # 53
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66 posts
Worker bee

He doesn’t know that I write on the board (It’s pretty new, I suscribed yesterday), BUT he knows that I read blog posts every single day since more than 3 years. Sometimes I’m explaining what happened with one miss during a normal conversation and he is very comprehensive!

Even with those small hints, no proposal yet! Wink

Post # 54
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1578 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

He knows. I talk about drama posts on here all the time haha.

Post # 55
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29 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

He didnt, but when he was searching for info about moissanite he stumbled across WB himself and thought it was the most helpful site he had found! Now he knows I come on here for inspiration and to read the blogs…I dont think he realises I actually registered or anything. Once we are in the actually planning our wedding stage I will openly browse WB in front of him, but for now i think that might be a bit full on

Post # 56
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482 posts
Helper bee

yep he knows. has seen the bee opened up on my laptop a few times. ive shown him a post once, but i usually try to keep it to myself. especially since ive been in the shut it up pact.

Post # 57
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Helper bee

lol i just said i lurk on a wedding forum. 😛

Post # 58
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38 posts
Newbee

No, although he knows I have been checking it for a long time before signing up. I don’t think he would mind too much as it means I don’t bug him with wedding talk he has heard before haha

Post # 59
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110 posts
Blushing bee

hahahaha yes 🙂 He gets so many links of things I think are funny/cute/interesting, and loads are from here. IDK if he knows I have an account though

 

when ever i get anxiety he tells me to go look at rings and kitties and dresses lol

Post # 60
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4953 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

He knows I spend time on “some wedding forum” but I’m not sure he could tell you which one. He’s looked over my shoulder while I’m on it, but I try to keep it relatively private since there’s pictures of me in my dress on here. 

Post # 61
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887 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

hubs reads forums ALL the time. so when he discovered that i had weddingbee, i think his exact words were, “i’m proud of you, babe!”

although he got a little confused when i continued even after the wedding. then i told him all about the nesting boards. =D

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