(Closed) Does your SO like lingerie?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Thoughts on Lingerie...
    He loves it : (62 votes)
    44 %
    He thinks it's ok : (54 votes)
    38 %
    He doesn't care for it : (25 votes)
    18 %
  • Post # 3
    9082 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    He didn’t at first until I brought some with me when I moved in.

    He does now.

    I do enjoy wearing it. I don’t wear anything outlandish or severely eyebrow raising, but I enjoy it, I enjoy the way he looks at me while wearing it. Very sexy.

    Post # 4
    430 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - The Skinner Barn

    @lilsweetie:  I think he likes the idea of it more than he actually likes it. He thinks lace is itchy and doesn’t understand all of the buttons and hooks associated with some lingerie. He does, however, LOVE a good silk nightgown. Something soft and short, which is fine with me because they’re super comfy to sleep in.

    Post # 5
    4371 posts
    Honey bee

    I think he likes it because I like it. 

    Post # 7
    1024 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    i don’t think he really cares about it

    Post # 8
    810 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    He thinks it’s hot, but kind of pointless since it comes off so quickly!

    Post # 9
    981 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2008 - A tiny town just outside of Glacier National Park

    He likes spandex and sportswear better! I’m happy with that because it’s more useful for me.

    Post # 10
    619 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    You needed an option stronger than “he doesn’t care for it”!

    My Fiance absolutely detests it. I used to try every so often, but he hates it so much it was bordering on being a turnoff. I’ll just flash him instead!

    Post # 11
    6359 posts
    Bee Keeper

    He likes my cute/pretty underthings and isn’t a fan of my “that time of the month” or other pratical underthings (I totally get that).

    Neither of us really see the point in lingerie that isn’t undies…negligees and all those things… it seems to us both like… “ok I’m just about to get naked… hold on, I’m gonna change out of this and go put on another outfit that I’ll wear for like 30 seconds, first”

    Post # 12
    2167 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @lilsweetie:  He honestly couldn’t care less about it because when we get in the bedroom he wants me fully naked as soon as possible.

    Post # 13
    4682 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    He loves it when I wear lingerie. I’m not sure which of us loves it more

    Post # 14
    7651 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    He loves it, but I have such a hard time justifying a purchase that only makes a 20 minute debut. It never stays on long enough to be fully appreciated so I hardly buy it anymore.

    Post # 15
    2131 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    SO and I just had a conversation about this the other night as I got into bed with sweats and a long sleeve shirt

    Him: You’re wearing all that to bed?…Sheesh I guess the lace underwear you use to wear was just to hook me…

     Me: Oh! You liked the lacy underwear?

     Him: Yeah, I really liked the red one, the pink one and the black one

     Me: I didn’t realize you paid that much attention since you would take them off so fast…

     Him: Oh yeah…you’ve got a point…I’m sorry


    Post # 16
    1426 posts
    Bumble bee

    Darling Husband is a big fan.  He was UBER excited the first time I bought a little teddy and surprised him with it.  He said no one else he’d ever been with took the time to do the lingerie thing for him and he loved it on me.

    I enjoy wearing it because its a big turn on for him.  I just bought a matching (for the first time) cute/sexy bra and thong and can’t wait to show it off.

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