Does your SO notice when you get a haircut?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Does your SO notice when you get your hair cut?
    Yes, immediately : (34 votes)
    30 %
    S/he notices something has changed, but can't pinpoint what : (6 votes)
    5 %
    S/he notices eventually : (10 votes)
    9 %
    S/he is oblivious : (22 votes)
    19 %
    S/he would never have to notice, because I'm vocal about when I get my hair cut! (before or after) : (41 votes)
    36 %
    I have no hair and/or SO. Your poll offends me. (hehe) : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    1126 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    He wouldn’t notice unless I did something really drastic.  So I always ask, “what do you think of my haircut?” And he says, “Uh, it looks the same.  It looks good.”

    Post # 4
    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I can’t vote because we have a disagreement about this lol. Here is what ALWAYS happens… I come home with a somewhat drastic cut/color change. Fiance says nothing. After a few hours I finally break down: 

    me: so……. like the hair?

    him: yep

    me: i can’t believe you didn’t notice

    him: I totally noticed! i just didn’t say anything.

    me: that’s crap. 

    him: I totally did. I thought it the second I walked in. How it’s all, like, different. 

    me: you’re full of it. 

    Post # 5
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Mine takes me to the salon and waits for me.  He LOVES to see me happy, and likes seeing my hair look better πŸ™‚

    Post # 6
    3871 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Ummm, yeah, Darling Husband will know when I get a hair cut, maybe it might take him a day or two to notice.  As for me, Darling Husband will get a haircut and a month later, i’ll ask him if he got a haircut recently. Yeah, I don’t really notice this stuff. LOL I’m horrible. Yeah, I’ve never been someone to notice fashion related stuff.  Things like scratches on my car, things related to my job, I will notice immediately.  I think I just notice different things than normal people would.

    Post # 7
    80 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I’m pretty vocal about it, mostly because it’s something I splurge on, so I give him a head’s up that the expense is coming. If we didn’t have combined finances, I don’t think he’d notice unless I did something really drastic. As long as it’s long(ish) and blonde, he’s a-ok. But funny enough, he gets offended if I don’t immediately comment when he gets his hair cut, LOL.

    Post # 8
    2054 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    not usually unless he knows im getting a haircut πŸ˜‰ and even then I think he just pretends! my hair is mid back and getting 2 inches off is just not that noticeable I guess! When I do the post wedding chop he BETTER notice!

    Post # 9
    3281 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Never lol

    Post # 10
    685 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Yup. He either would go with me or he knows when I go to the salon. I usually change my hair style and color a lot too, so he can’t missed it.

    Post # 11
    870 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    He always knows because he knows when I go to the salon. Most of our weekends start with the question: “what are you doing today?” and then we tell each other what we’re doing. πŸ™‚

    Post # 12
    3041 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    My Darling Husband always notices right away, however I feel bad cause I don’t notice when he gets his hair cut right away, it takes me a few hours for it to “click” lol. Poor Darling Husband.

    Post # 13
    5399 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    He usually knows when I have an appointment and I also ask him about options I’m considering.  He also usually notices that my hair has changed but still can’t quite pinpoint what I did to it, lol.

    Post # 14
    600 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2006

    The real test is… my SO notices when other women (our friends, don’t freak out y’all) get their hair cut but I don’t notice!  I’m one of those women who don’t notice things like that.  I couldn’t really care too much less about people’s hair.  Sometimes my SO is mad at me for not noticing his haircut! Haha, oh role reversals!

    Post # 15
    2077 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    My Fiance always knows because we share a car, so when one of us uses it we tell each other where we’re going.  Haha  Plus, I always ask for his input.

    On a side note:  I was hellbent on dying my hair red so I could look like this beauty:

    Annnd found out that my Fiance doesn’t like red hair (Btw, who has hair color prejudices?!).  Boo.  I guess it’s a good thing for him that I don’t have the extra money to spend right now…  From now on, I don’t think I’m going to ask for his input!  πŸ˜›

    Post # 16
    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    So I just got a haircut like 2 weeks ago. Darling Husband knew that I was going to get my haircut that night. I came home with my new haircut.

    He did not say anything.

    Me: You didnt even notice my haircut

    Him: I did notice, it looks really good!

    Me: But you didnt say anything

    Him: I thought it and I could have sworn I said it out loud

    Me: You didnt….

    Him: Oh well, I really like it!


    So yeah, I think he noticed but maybe doesnt know what to say??

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