(Closed) Does your SO still open doors etc. for you?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Does he still open doors for you?
    Yes! All the time! : (55 votes)
    43 %
    Sometimes, if he thinks about it. : (22 votes)
    17 %
    He did in the beginning of our relationship, but not anymore. : (3 votes)
    2 %
    No, he never has. : (11 votes)
    9 %
    I love it when he's chivalrous! : (21 votes)
    17 %
    I prefer to do it myself. : (5 votes)
    4 %
    I'm neutral. : (10 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4689 posts
    Honey bee

    He does it sometimes. He almost always opens doors for me. Most of the time, I prefer to do stuff myself, but I like when he surprises me with a random gentlemanly act. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    11239 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Yep, he always have, even before we were dating, and still does. I think it’s adorable.

    Post # 5
    Member
    3771 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    Absolutely… although I often “rig” the order in restaurants; I’ll get to the door and open it for him first so that he has to talk to the hostess (yah I’m weird).  He also often switches sides with me when we’re walking on the sidewalk or along the road so that he is on the side of the street.  That impresses me way more than opening doors because I never knew that was a thing until him!

    Post # 6
    Member
    513 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    My man is perfect gentleman!!  He does open doors for me all the time!!  god love him!!  His momma raised him well.

    Post # 7
    Member
    3226 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    He always does 🙂 

    Post # 8
    Member
    1466 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    My FI is truly a gentleman he opens doors, pulls out my chair, helps me on with my coat, and makes coffee every morning.

    Post # 9
    Member
    479 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Yes he does

    Post # 10
    Member
    8044 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    @gangqinjia:  Always. He’s a true gentleman. He doesn’t just do this for me, he opens doors for everyone.. man, woman, child. He’s just an all around good guy who was taught some manners.

    I really don’t understand women who get mad when people are courteous. It just blows my mind. Everyone knows that most people have the ability to open doors for themselves. It’s just a nice gesture.

    Post # 11
    Member
    2548 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    NO! haha. I think he did on our first and second maybe third date. His true colors started showing shortly after that…. bahahah.

    Post # 12
    Member
    51 posts
    Worker bee

    He always does. And I in turn reach over and unlock the driver’s side door of his truck after he lets me in. (No power locks ><)

    Post # 13
    Member
    701 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    Mine always does!

    Post # 14
    Member
    986 posts
    Busy bee

    He almost always does – unless it’s raining/snowing/etc., then he doesn’t, which is fine of course! 🙂 I think it’s sweet that he still does it for me. His mom and dad taught him well!

    Post # 15
    Member
    222 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @elysion:  My fiance ALWAYS switches sides so that he is closer to the street!  I never knew it was a “thing” either until he did it!

    Post # 16
    Member
    5390 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Yes. He is so caring and thoughtful. Most days he will run my bath water. I do things for him too, but he treats me like a queen.

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