(Closed) Doggie help

posted 7 years ago in Pets
Post # 3
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2815 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Wow, yeah, he needs to let you know what’s going on.  He shouldn’t leave you out of this.  You’d think he’d want you there for support instead of leaving you to wonder what the hell is going on.  I’m sorry his dog is sick though. Maybe he feels that you can’t understand since he is a family dog and you don’t care for him all that much.  

Post # 4
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3692 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I think he didn’t want to tell you anything because he knows you don’t really like the dog.  

He’s grieving, and he probably thinks you won’t “get it.”  Or maybe he’s having a hard time dealing with the bad news himself.  He had to tell the whole truth to his family because it’s their dog too.  But at home with you he can sort of pretend that nothing is really wrong.

I think you should gently let him know that you are aware something is wrong with the dog, and regardless of your own feelings about Treacle, you care about things that hurt your Fiance, and knowing that he is in pain is hurtful to you too.  Let him know that you care because Treacle is important to him.

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