(Closed) Doing wedding type stuff all weekend and it’s not for me of course.

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

I know how you feel, I’ve been there, 3 weddings in a month, plus bridal showers, engagement parties, bachelorette parties, it sucks when you’re waiting. But know that eventually it will be your turn and these people will be there to celebrate with you 🙂

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

Aww I’m sorry you’re having a rough time. Just be present and happy for them and when it’s your turn, they will be there for you too <3

Post # 5
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153 posts
Blushing bee

it stinks when you have to celebrate everyone else’s engagements/weddings when you really want to be celebrating your own… I’m sure you’re so excited for your friends, but its that constant reminder that you’re still ‘waiting’.  I’ve been there too.

All I can really say is try to have fun with your friends.  Let them enjoy their time, because someday soon it will be your time to celebrate and you’d want them to enjoy being with you.  Plus sometimes a night out with the girls is a great way to blow off some steam!!!

good luck this weekend!

Post # 6
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147 posts
Blushing bee

GAH! I KNOW. 

 

I’ve been asked to help plan 2 friends weddings and do everything with them from venue hunting to dress shopping. You have to smile because your happy but deep down you ache because you want to feel that secure in your relationship. 

Stay strong woman, I’m right there with you and while its tough, I do love a good wedding to put on my dancing shoes!

 

Post # 7
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316 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I totally feel you on this one! It’s so hard celebrating everyone else’s weddings, because obviously you are happy for them. But the frustrating thoughts always come up- when is it my turn, don’t I deserve all this too?! So while it helps to remember everyone will be celebrating you someday, it still sucks! I just hope you can still enjoy the time with your friends in the meantime =)

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