- 4 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
My FI really wants to do the dollar dance, and at first I was just fine with it because really he has not asked much at all so I feel like I should honor all of his requests because I want to encourage his involvement. The more I think about it though, I feel uncomfortable. Most of our guests will already be paying to get there and stay there, probably a gift too. And we are having a limited open bar, so I feel like they should save their cash for their drinks.
I told him like 6 months ago that it was fine though and now I’m changing my mind… how could I talk to him about it and say it nicely? I just feel bad because then we’ll be doing all of my family’s traditions but not the one family tradition he has asked to have. I’m not really sure what to do. Help!