- 3 years ago
- Wedding: November 2014
We are getting married very soon (yay!) and our wonderful friend will be officiating our Christian ceremony. She is a minister at a Christian church that neither FI or I attend as it would not be geographically practical for us. When we asked about a ceremony fee or recommended donation, she told us that she was delighted and honored to perform the ceremony and that no monetary contribution was necessary.
However, we just don’t feel right about not contributing anything at all. Since she didn’t suggest an appropriate $ amount, I am wondering what other bees donated/paid. We’d like to make a donation to the church, probably anonymously so our friend doesn’t try to give it back to us or anything silly like that.