(Closed) Done wrong by my ex now I feel like I'm going crazy!!!

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1142 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Not sure why your title says you did wrong by your man… It sounds like you were wronged by him over and over. You sound like you have very little self esteem to continue to want to be with someone who clearly has no respect for you what-so-ever. I would encourage you to seek counseling. Seeing as you are religious, many churches provide counseling for free.


As a side note, your “man” sounds faaaar from a respectable man of God, and God cannot control where that man decides to put his penis. 

Post # 4
49 posts
  • Wedding: December 1969

wow…. i’m so sorry for your loss OP.. *virtual hug*

i was asking the same questions as you a few months back, how could someone who is doing such awful things to other people be allowed by God to sail into the sunset so easily while we are stuck still loving them, despite logic telling us that they don’t deserve it.

this article i found really helped me, i hope it will help you too. i’m not sure what the rules are re:sharing links on this board, but the article is called “the other woman-now he’s happy with her” on this online magazine Safe Relationship Magazine. please give it a read.

i can’t imagine what you’re going through now, it will hurt for a while, but things will slowly get better. you really do deserve so much more OP. this man is crap, but you know that already. give yourself time and space to heal, and cut him off completely. again, so much internet hugs your way.

Post # 5
1032 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016 - His Way Church & Chesapeake Room @ Downs Park

So sorry to hear about you losing your baby. I can’t imagine how that must’ve felt *HUGS*

But as far as everything else goes, I noticed that you keep saying you feel like it wouldn’t be “fair” if he went with her and got her pregnant. But to be honest, I think that’s the best thing that could happen for you at this point. 

You know he’s a liar and a cheater, so why would you want to be with someone like that? And as far as the other girl goes, she deserves whatever she gets for being with him. Like you said, even after you told her about all his lies, cheating and abuse she STILL went with him. So that’s her perogative. 

Try to move on. The loss of your child was horrible, but as far as the guygoes, try to see that you are in a better situation now that you aren’t with him. You WILL find someone who will treat you right. And your life will be happier without him in the longrun. 

Goodluck with everything. Sorry you’re going through this.

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