(Closed) Don’t do what I did. (Warning: a ramble!)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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4324 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@keepsmiling19: You know, maybe it wouldn’t hurt to call said friend and just tell her what you’re feeling about it. She’ll probably appreciate your acknowledgement.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@keepsmiling19: It takes courage to face your past mistakes and ask for forgiveness. Good for you for writing this out. I think if your friend read this, she’d be understanding and forgive you; I know I sure would! You write from the heart and it’s very cool that you can make peace with everything. Congrats and good luck to you as you plan your wedding!

Post # 5
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570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@keepsmiling19:  YOu are a great individual I say this after the fact that you realized and reflected on your own mistake and are attempting to rectify it.  Many individuals go in life (MIL) feeling jealously of others however at the end you only get loneliness, sadness, and what did I do wrong regrets.

I don’t know but I would sure send her a note in which I thank her for being a good friend and tell her how much she means to you. If I ever received a note like this I would be surprised and happy. Plus its a step in the right direction

Post # 6
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4824 posts
Honey bee

I agree that maybe your friend deserves a note. She probably noticed (wouldnt you notice your behavior?). She is even a better friend for not calling you out on it, truly.  If you were her, wouldnt you imagine postin here about your “bad” BM?

I wish you the best of luck and support as you plan your own

Post # 6
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4824 posts
Honey bee

I agree that maybe your friend deserves a note. She probably noticed (wouldnt you notice your behavior?). She is even a better friend for not calling you out on it, truly.  If you were her, wouldnt you imagine postin here about your “bad” BM?

I wish you the best of luck and support as you plan your own

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