don't judge me

posted 7 months ago in Emotional
Post # 16
4471 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Based on this post you are not ready for “just sex” (it wouldn’t be just sex for either of you), and you aren’t ready for any type of relationship right now.  Take a break.  A full break.  This guy wants to be with you but it doesn’t sound like you want to be with him.  The fact that you are worrying so much about this indicates to me that this would be a very bad idea.  Don’t get me wrong some people can have a friend with benefits and it is totally fine and doesn’t affect them emotionally.  It does not sound like you are that kind of person.

Post # 17
4155 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

Browneyedbelle92 :  

1. If you dont wanna be judged, dont post shit online. Seriously!

2. If you are both single, you can litterally hump your way trough the universe! Enjoy! And there is nothing to feel guilty about!

3. Guilt is a very useless feeling especially if you enjoyed what you did. It’s like if you gonna do it, just do it and enjoy it. Feeling guilty about it after is pointless and takes away from the enjoyment post factum. Especially since you arent hurting anyone. 

Post # 19
56 posts
Worker bee

You’re both single consenting adults. Either just go do it and take it easy and go from there or just say no and erase it.

Post # 20
3604 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

You just broke up with your ex two weeks ago. Absolutely do not have sex with your friend. Take some time to heal and work on yourself. 

Post # 21
8125 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Browneyedbelle92 :  Don’t have sex with your friend because you are lonely. You will probably end up feeling worse than before because you are trying to replace your relationship. It will be like eating 12 cupcakes when you are upset, it will do nothing but make you feel bad.

Take this time to work on you. Being alone does not mean you have to be lonely. Find a new hobby, hang out with friends (not bang them) and come to grips with the loss of your relationship. Then when you are happy and healthy again you can revisit the friends with benefits situation.

in the meantime invest in a good vibrator.

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