(Closed) Don\'t know if I can trust him. My head is so messed up

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 46
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Helper bee

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Mrsb915:  He doesn’t seem to have any good qualities that you’d want to marry someone with. He seems like an ass….I wouldn’t marry him.

Post # 48
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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Mrsb915 :  Sorry bee! That sucks! You deserve better try to keep you head up! 

Post # 49
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Bumble bee

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Mrsb915 :  Sorry to hear your fears were justified but congratulations on starting your brand new life, minus the dead weight!  I’d still recommend counselling (for your postpartum depression, for your general self esteem) but you’ve taken the first (and hardest) step. Onwards and upwards bee!

Post # 50
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

No offence to anybody in an age gap relationship (what I’m going to say does not apply every time) but why do you think a manipulative man in his 30’s wanted a relationship with an 18 year old girl? Maybe women his own age are more likely to have the life experience needed to know how out of order his behaviour is. Some men like younger women because they are less confident and will put up with crap like that.

I completely understand why you want to make this work for your child but if they grow up believing this is how relationships work, you will end up with a son who treats women like crap or a daughter who doesn’t think she’s worth anything more.

Post # 51
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Sorry OP I didn’t read your update before I posted! I’m sorry you had to go through that but well done for how you handled it girl! You will be just fine.

I’m going to leave my advice up in the slim chance it helps somebody.

 

Post # 52
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

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Mrsb915 :  You really made the right choice! There are guys out there who will only have eyes for you, who will treat you with the respect and love you deserve. I’ve gained weight in our marriage, my husband has not. He still makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world! You deserve that! So long, loser!

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