(Closed) Don't know what I will do if it doesn't come over the holidays

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 32
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478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Lyndzo:  Thank you! Comments like yours help so much with this excruciating waiting period.

 

@radar:  I so know exactly what you mean. I always wonder, “Why does it seem like other girls’ boyfriends can’t wait to marry them? What’s wrong with me?!” It’s so painful when family members ask when I’m getting engaged. I just say, “I’m not the one who has control over that.” Other friends just think I’m crazy and tell me not to think about it, as if that’s just the easiest thing in the world and like it’s not completely impossible! It’s really frustrating. I know he has the ring and everything, too. Perfect moments/days have come and gone and I’m now at a loss. So trust me, you’re definitely NOT alone! (Sorry for the mini rant!)

Post # 34
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478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@radar:  I know! Before I found this site, I thought I was going crazy! It’s a real feeling though…it hurts every time I think about the fact that it hasn’t happened yet. I can’t talk to him 100% honestly about it because I don’t want to rush him — I want him to want to ask already. I just tell him that it’s tough waiting for something I’ve wanted forever and I know is finally coming but I have no control over when! I just have to wait! He just doesn’t get it 😛 maybe if he saw how it was effecting other women, he’d understand. haha but I keep trying to remember this: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/best-waiting-advice-ive-heard

Post # 35
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699 posts
Busy bee

@radar:  (big HUGS) i’ve been on/off this site for a year now. been with my SO for 3+ years. i hope your man steps up soon ^-^

Post # 39
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1430 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@radar:  Woohoo! Congrats, except now we need pics and the story of how it happened. 🙂

Post # 41
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1979 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

So glad it all worked out for you!!! Best wishes on your engagement!!

Post # 43
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39 posts
Newbee

Congrats! So glad your waiting is over Radar! Good luck to all the other waiting bees!

Post # 44
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478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Congratulations! I got engaged over the holidays too! :))) yay for being done waiting! I’m so happy for you.

Post # 45
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47 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@radar:  CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!! <3 I wish you the best in planning and getting the ball rolling for a wonderful wedding day and even better marriage!

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