(Closed) Don’t know what to do about bm, any advice is greatly appreciated!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

This is in response to the four “do i’s” at the end.

1. I can understand why you’d feel like you don’t want your hair the same, but honestly, you will be in your wedding dress and looking amazing!! Hair is hair. I think that right now, that is not something to fret over. Even if she does have a similar style, there’s no way she can upstage you in your amazing dress!!

2. I would care. The whole point of getting the limo is so you guys can all enjoy the ride together and drink/have fun! Her riding behind you totally defeats the purpose.

3. She is a big girl. If you trust her as a friend, you will trust that she’ll be there. As unfortunate as it is, I’m sure she would take the time off if she could, but it sounds like she absolutely can’t. Hey, at least be thankful she could take your whole wedding day off, because that’d be a whole ‘nother issue..!

4. She will be there for the rehearsal, which is vital. She will also be able to go to the dinner from 7-930ish, which is plenty enough time! You will have the rest of your bridal party and family there, I’m sure that one person missing for the last hour or two won’t make that big of a difference.

Don’t fret! This is supposed to be the greatest day of your life. I’ve found that I too have been stressing about all the little things that seem to important, but at the end of the day, everything will work out!

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