Post # 1
so i had been trying to decide all last week about what jewelry to give my BMs.
see this thread:
well, i finally decided to spend more money and get the floral, more stand out, necklaces for everyone. I have already told all my BMs that i bought them jewelry to wear in the wedding, they just haven’t seen it yet. I plan to give it to them in Jamaica.
well today one of my BMs messages me online and says her boyfriend just bought her this necklace that she thinks will go with the bridesmaid dress!
so now what do i do? do i buy her the jewelry set or not? i find it weird she told me this when i already told i bought her jewelry too!!
Post # 3
Just let her know that you appreciate the offer, but you have already purchased the jewelry for them to wear at the wedding.
Post # 4
i guess that is the logical thing to do. but i feel as thiugh i am wasting money now buying more jewelry that she probably would rather not wear.
Post # 5
Hmm, wow that’s unfortunate. I have a bridesmaid that is kind of like that – she’s very particular about what she wears, and getting her to agree to wearing the jewelry I gift her was like asking her to…yeah. I’m with noritake – maybe you can let your Bridesmaid or Best Man know that you really want your BMs to match in jewelry?
Post # 6
i spoke to her online earlier and said i had already bought all the BMs jewelry. i even said “remember i told you before”. and she just said “ok no problem”. then i said its up to her ultimately what she wears, but i had already bought something for that purpose. and she just said ok again. so there was no further discussion.